Avalon Singles

[Carmen]

Forget spicey , forget technique, what a load of ballocks!! Finding the right mate is about coming from the heart, in perfect honesty and integrity. Its sure as hell not about what you do its what you are. Its about looking into someones eyes and knowing and no amount of cold technique will accomplish anything!! Love is not something you learn its about what you are !!!

[THE eXchanger]

perhaps, i was raised in too disciplined environment,
i was always taught, anything worth doing,
is worth doing well --and, not something to be rushed through.

Perhaps, i've lived a lot of my life, in a desert,
NOT getting any, since, i am picky, about partners...

i think good energetic exchange,
esp. good seX is the most beautiful thing
two people can share -- and, it is something you put all of you into,
NOT just parts of you !!!
it creates a much gathers more, type of senario

i can't imagine, choosing to sleep with someone
who didn't want to toss all of themselves into the ring,
so, i suppose, having great eyes, and, a great smile,
and, having my heart in high gear, is something,
to me, that is an obvious given ...
and, all that, would need be there,
existing also in a parter
before, i'd have sex with someone --
we become who we sleep with
so, thus, i am picky
however, personally, i believe,
it is a great way, to span many gambits, at the same time,
from peace to passion, chemistry to caring, laughter to love,
and, personally, if i had all those things, i wouldn't mind it, a bit,
if someone also lusted after me -- i think, people can have good sex,
at almost any age

[THE eXchanger]

good sex - is a lot like preparing food

which does require technique

there is a reason- sugar/and, spice is used, in almost everything

as, it makes your back teeth water

[piers2210]

Carmen, I think we all agree that we don't really need another book on the subject, and we all agree that good sex involves giving from the heart, but....

... wouldn't it be nice for sex to take longer than Irving Wallace's banned book "seven minutes" that he allegedly wrote in the 70's, or Paulo Coehlo's "eleven minutes" which he DID write in 2003, the "eleven" being the alleged timeframe for a hooker to complete her transaction with a client...though Coehlo also indicated that he wrote the book to allow the world to discover the sacred nature of sex....that we all live somewhere which spans from the fairytale to the abyss...

But of course love making IS about love, and you can't have good sex without that beautiful feeling between two people...

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Kathleen

Many who are on a spiritual journey,
both single and couples, practice celibacy.

What do you enlightened ones think of that?

MANY DO...and, i say, good for them,
it should be a free choice
(after all, i would NOT want to take a man by force)

i once went 8 1/2 years without sex...
(without someone else) and, i hate to say it,
but, it was truly awful, feeling like you lived in a desert...
and, i discovered, i truly did miss NOT having another warm body to love ...
and, to exchange with ... and, i'd rather age gracefully, with another

it all boils down to one thing,
personal/and, mutual choices !!!

there is no right, or no wrong to sex - it just is, what it is

hopefully creative/and, good - after all, i think, body expression,
is an art form

trouble is, some people will say they have an appetite for it,
and, trouble is, some people will say almost anything to get hitched,
and, then after the ride starts, there is NO appetite

i think that would be sad,
and, i sure wouldn't want to live in the desert,
so, i would want someone with an appetite

personally, i feel, that if, you are wanting to rise your kundalini,
it's a lot more fun, and, a lot more interesting,
to do it, with another you really love,
and, experiment with it, as it can be quite enlightening experience,
also, it holds within it,
the potenital for the highest of lows, as, well as,
the highest of highs.

There isn't anything,
that can run you through your scales, quite the same way as,
physical contact can, although, it also dovetails,
throught the emotional and, the intellectual too,
and, out into the spiritual bodies, and, beyond --
so, it can be quite an encompassing experience...


personal choices, are very important,
as, well, as, the freedom to exerciSe, that right !!!

we are quite electric beings, and, however it is,
that, you want to run, your circuits, is fine with me,
alone
with someone else,
and/or NOT at all
all viable options

[piers2210]

Kathleen, you raise a very interesting question, but, like susan says, i think you learn more through bodily contact, though i am certain i was a monk at some other past life.

We are here on earth to learn, and i have found that two things speed up that process of learning : sex and travel.

These activities act as a "microwave" for learning in this realm, and i recommend both to everyone.

Why? Because without interaction at a very personal level with people, we cannot learn. I am not a fan of one night stands, but i think ALL contact at a physical level should help you to learn. Sex, however, is something which gets better and better as you and your true love get to know each other over a long period. Thus, i don't think abstinence is a good way to learn in this life, though a different sort of learning can be achieved if you extract yourself from everyday life and go to a monastic retreat, away from living. But to live in the bustling world without sex would be hard for a long period.

[Czymra]

We are here on earth to learn, and i have found that two things speed up that process of learning : sex and travel.

[Dantheman62]

Single and free,
Is the way to be!

[Swanny]

I have a feeling that my girl will be here soon
Hope I'm right

[rhythm]

Swanny

just be happy

mate
realy ...

Dans

got a point ...

get with yer self

thats all ....

[Swanny]

Yea Dan is a wize old man but I have a feeling

[Dantheman62]

Old?!!! only 46, LOL, And your feeling is?
The truth is Swanny, I've lived a fun and crazy life, as in sex, minor drugs, and parties!
I've done a lot of crazy things, with a lot of crazy women, in a lot of crazy places, LOL
HaHa,No I won't go into details, but I think that's what's given me my sense of humor!, There's nothing that you could say to me that would shock me, LOL
Now it's time to focus on me!

[Swanny]

Originally Posted by Dantheman62

Old?!!! only 46, LOL, And your feeling is?
The truth is Swanny, I've lived a fun and crazy life, as in sex, minor drugs, and parties!
I've done a lot of crazy things, with a lot of crazy women, in a lot of crazy places, LOL
HaHa,No I won't go into details, but I think that's what's given me my sense of humor!, There's nothing that you could say to me that would shock me, LOL
Now it's time to focus on me!

Same here But I want one more crazy lady to finish my days with

[Carmen]

Here ya are Swanny, This one is especially for you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWjyP...eature=related

This is sooo romantic and sexy.

Love

Carmen

[Czymra]

Don't know what's sexy about that Carmen.

But to cool down all the sexual tension here, this goes out to all my German friends:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGp0hCxSg98

[Humble Janitor]

Eh, I'd rather watch a sultry Madonna video than some bloke on a fiddle.

[THE eXchanger]

way back to love

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gY8-f...eature=related

[Swanny]

Originally Posted by Carmen

Here ya are Swanny, This one is especially for you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWjyP...eature=related

This is sooo romantic and sexy.

Love

Carmen

He's is singing about a black haired girl with blue eyes, not the one in the video then
But she is nice and the title has my intials in it. "The Galway Girl (P.S. I Love You)"

HJ your suposed to be looking at the girl not the bloke on the fiddle

[Carmen]

Here is a wonderful romantic song and video for the singles here. This is what I will be singing for my daughters wedding next year.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRWo8848cSU

Love

Carmen

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Carmen

Here is a wonderful romantic song and video for the singles here. This is what I will be singing for my daughters wedding next year.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRWo8848cSU

Love

Carmen

will you video it carmen, i'd love to see it

[Swanny]

Well I have just met a girl who has recently woken up to the spirit and is eager to find out more
Early days yet but looking very good

[Dantheman62]

Is she rich?, Does she know how to cook?, Does she have any baggage? (as in children)
LOL,Can she hunt,fish,or know about camping? When's the wedding? HaHa
Just kidding Swanster, LOL

[Swanny]

Originally Posted by Dantheman62

Is she rich?, Does she know how to cook?, Does she have any baggage? (as in children)
LOL,Can she hunt,fish,or know about camping? When's the wedding? HaHa
Just kidding Swanster, LOL

Don't think she is rich but money will be worthless soon so it matters not anyway She can cook no kids loves gardening likes to camp very pretty
Wedding??? Well if the red sky doesn't come who knows

That's a good attitude Swammy!

I never noticed this thread before. I'm not looking for romance. I'm looking for genuine friendships only. I love to meet people but find myself at 53 not wanting to find another partner at this point in my life. I'm female have a teenage daughter and she and I love the freedom we have without anyone else in the picture. I know that might change after she goes to highschool and leaves the roost but for now conversation is all I seek.

[futureyes]

Originally Posted by sleepingnomore

That's a good attitude Swammy!

I never noticed this thread before. I'm not looking for romance. I'm looking for genuine friendships only. I love to meet people but find myself at 53 not wanting to find another partner at this point in my life. I'm female have a teenage daughter and she and I love the freedom we have without anyone else in the picture. I know that might change after she goes to highschool and leaves the roost but for now conversation is all I seek.

and that's a good attitude sleepingnomore ...

when you feel fulfilled with just being ... the heart you weren't seeking ... will find you ... easy peasy because you are happy within your self ... no expectations ...

and perhaps it will evolve into something more ...

all stemming from friendship ...

all REAL ...

all LOVEly ...



swanny ... you shined your shoes well ...