Some advice please

[THE eXchanger]

(((big hugs to all)))
so sorry, to hear of LAN's passing
he will be around you, in his 'new' spirit form
you likely, saved him, a lot of pain and anguish,
and, you did the right thing,
putting him to sleep --
he is out of pain, and, NOW free !!!

he will NEVER forget you,
and, you will NEVER forget him,
that type of love is eternal,
and, it NEVER comes to an end

so, be sure, to celebrate the rememberance of that love, daily

i hope, you will be, the type of person,
your dog believed you were,
actually; all of us,
should be, the types of people,
our pets believe us to be,
they are good & wise friends,
who we are most fortunate,
to share, the journey with

LAN & YOU were so very fortunate,
to have time, to share with one another,
remember, that type of love, lasts forever

CELEBRATE your memory of LAN,
in everything you choose to do !!!

As, that will honour the memory, of the significant bond the two of you,
will always share

love to both of you,
susan

[Northern Boy]

Sorry to hear about your loss .he will always be with you there is not a day goes by when I don`t think of my old girl Had a picture of her Blown up and framed it sits on my wall loyal to me right to the end. you can get another dog take some time for yourself then when you feel the time is right look for a dog it will help to ease the pain

[Swanny]

Sorry for your loss

Think of this

He lived everyday in the now, he savoured every moment on this earth, he left with no unfinished business and no regrets.
He truly loved you and his life

Originally Posted by eXchanger

(((big hugs to all)))
i hope, you will be, the type of person,
your dog believed you were,
actually; all of us,
should be, the types of people,
our pets believe us to be,
they are good & wise friends,
who we are most fortunate,
to share, the journey with

I do not know what type of person he hopes me to be. I have no idea.

Originally Posted by Swanny

Sorry for your loss

He lived everyday in the now, he savoured every moment on this earth, he left with no unfinished business and no regrets.
He truly loved you and his life

I am not sure there were no regrets. I can not be sure.


They way he had to go...he did not deserve this...not like that...not with breathing problems and water flooding the organs...etc

I am grateful for all your kind words. He was/is everything to me.



I do not plan to get another dog...that would be like...betraying him.

I do so wish to be somehow able to communicate with him...to see weather he is ok and if there is anything he wants me to do. And I wish to be together...with him...

You are all just so great here...and all I do is "complaining"...

So also all the best wishes from me to you.

I will try to get some sleep soon.

[THE eXchanger]

Ask, and, invite him, into your dreams

(remember, how he looked at you ...
as, that is how, he remembers you ~ with lots and lots of love)

It takes an incredible & beautiful being of light
to raise something amasing, your dog "LAN", was so lucky to have you
and, you were truly blessed, to have "LAN",
TREASURE the awesome memories

Remember, to ask, and, invite him, into your dreams

he will come ~ enjoy your dream_time

Honour LAN, on every step you take upon your path, in the next leg of your journey !!!

love/susan
the eXchanger

[Northern Boy]

I do not plan to get another dog...that would be like...betraying him.

It is natural to feel this way part of the reason being the pain you feel for the loss..... Like I said take time for you but the idea of another dog will eventually come back to you and it will have nothing to do with betrayal and everything to do with companionship and friendship. Dogs sense pain your old friend would not want you to suffer just like you din`t want him to.

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Northern Boy

Had a picture of her Blown up and framed it sits on my wall loyal to me right to the end.

What a beautiful idea,

i went on ebay, looking for something,
related to black cats, or, old familiars (as, some people call them)
and, i found an amasing artist,
who had painted 3 painting...
and, they truly reflected, eXactly what he loved to do

1) siting under the flowers in the garden

2) sitting in the light of the planets and stars

and,

3) sit out in the yard ~ keeping other cats, at bay LOL
(heaven forbid, they get any of his LOVE) <wink> <big grin>

and, NOW, i hope to take the 3 of them
and, integrate them, into a childrens book

Your photographs of LAN, are lovely,
thank you for so graciously, sharing them, with me,
and, with all of us

love/susan
the eXchanger

[bushycat]

Dear Spregovori,
So sorry you had to say good-bye to your old friend, Lan. I think he held on as long as he could for you, but his physical body wore out. He'll be with you in many ways always. If you do ever take a puppy into your life, even if it might be Lan coming back to you, that new one will be a new story. Lan was one of a kind and such a smart and fortunate dog to have chosen you for his time here. You are special and I wish you great peace.

Love Always,
Bushycat

[Ammit]

I have no other words to say except, I am deeply sorry for the loss of your friend.