Seeking spiritual guidance/advice from an enlightened or psychic female perspective

THE eXchanger · 01-27-2010, 01:52 AM

staying single, has a lot of advantages
right now, if i wanted to sell my house/and, i have a spouse
i might NOT be able to sell it

also, i do NOT have to consider anyone else's feelings/or thoughts
in making my own decisions

yes, actually, i think i know why i stayed single !!!

other people, can really clutter up/and, mess up your life

having an anchor around your neck / or having the smallest handcuff in the world on your finger,
might NOT be pleasant

futureyes · 01-27-2010, 03:09 AM

hello md3inaustin ...
not so sure about enlightened but i am female and have experience with this scenario ...
allow your own truth to continuously grow ... even if you attempted to shut that part of you down at this point ... i feel would be pointless ... once awake ... you cannot go back ... there isn't anywhere to go back to is there ...
your wife ... be there for her ... as you are ... allow her the space ... for her own truth to unfold as it is meant to ... when it is meant to ...
something you either say or something she hears elsewhere ... may trigger the beginning of her awakening ... it could occur anytime ...
in the interim ... you will feel the gap ... perhaps even widening ... from where the two of you are with this ...
can the two of you just be ... and allow ... without expectation ... it is our expectation of each other that becomes our wedge ... can you co-exist without this wedge of expectation ...
and if the gap widens ... to a point whereby this factor ... seeps within many aspects of your relationship ... creating many wedges ... the outcome of which the energy between you is no longer light ... the connection becoming with much effort ...
then you will know ... within your heart ... that it is time to walk different paths ... and if felt within your heart ... you will know it will be for the benefit of both ...
and you will know ... if all true and pure attempts to allow each other to be your selves ... have been exhausted ...
then you will know ... it isn't just about your self and where you feel you are headed to ... but also ... you will feel ... you need to allow the other ... to also be where they need to be ... in order for their selves to grow ... but differently than you do ...
and that it is ok ...
allow each other the space ... to be who you are ... and whatever is meant to be ... between you ... will be ...
and to trust it is so ...

blessings to both of you md3inaustin ...
all will be well ...

just be ... no expectations ok

one of my favourite poems ...

love one another,
but make not a bond of love,
let it rather be a moving sea
between the shores of your souls

sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each one of you be alone,
as the strings of a flute are alone
though they quiver with the same music

stand together yet not too near together,
for the pillars of the temple stand apart,
and the oak tree and the cypress
grow not in each other's shadow
kahlil gibran

can we allow ... without expectation ...

Myplanet2 · 01-27-2010, 03:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by THE eXchanger

staying single, has a lot of advantages
right now, if i wanted to sell my house/and, i have a spouse
i might NOT be able to sell it

also, i do NOT have to consider anyone else's feelings/or thoughts
in making my own decisions

yes, actually, i think i know why i stayed single !!!

other people, can really clutter up/and, mess up your life

having an anchor around your neck / or having the smallest handcuff in the world on your finger,
might NOT be pleasant

Not going for the ball and chain look, eh?

01-27-2010, 01:52 AM	#1
THE eXchanger Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Spiritual eXplorer-Canada Posts: 4,915	Re: Seeking spiritual guidance/advice from an enlightened or psychic female perspecti staying single, has a lot of advantages right now, if i wanted to sell my house/and, i have a spouse i might NOT be able to sell it also, i do NOT have to consider anyone else's feelings/or thoughts in making my own decisions yes, actually, i think i know why i stayed single !!! other people, can really clutter up/and, mess up your life having an anchor around your neck / or having the smallest handcuff in the world on your finger, might NOT be pleasant

01-27-2010, 03:09 AM	#2
futureyes Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: heart central Posts: 798	Re: Seeking spiritual guidance/advice from an enlightened or psychic female perspecti hello md3inaustin ... not so sure about enlightened but i am female and have experience with this scenario ... allow your own truth to continuously grow ... even if you attempted to shut that part of you down at this point ... i feel would be pointless ... once awake ... you cannot go back ... there isn't anywhere to go back to is there ... your wife ... be there for her ... as you are ... allow her the space ... for her own truth to unfold as it is meant to ... when it is meant to ... something you either say or something she hears elsewhere ... may trigger the beginning of her awakening ... it could occur anytime ... in the interim ... you will feel the gap ... perhaps even widening ... from where the two of you are with this ... can the two of you just be ... and allow ... without expectation ... it is our expectation of each other that becomes our wedge ... can you co-exist without this wedge of expectation ... and if the gap widens ... to a point whereby this factor ... seeps within many aspects of your relationship ... creating many wedges ... the outcome of which the energy between you is no longer light ... the connection becoming with much effort ... then you will know ... within your heart ... that it is time to walk different paths ... and if felt within your heart ... you will know it will be for the benefit of both ... and you will know ... if all true and pure attempts to allow each other to be your selves ... have been exhausted ... then you will know ... it isn't just about your self and where you feel you are headed to ... but also ... you will feel ... you need to allow the other ... to also be where they need to be ... in order for their selves to grow ... but differently than you do ... and that it is ok ... allow each other the space ... to be who you are ... and whatever is meant to be ... between you ... will be ... and to trust it is so ... blessings to both of you md3inaustin ... all will be well ... just be ... no expectations ok one of my favourite poems ... love one another, but make not a bond of love, let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, as the strings of a flute are alone though they quiver with the same music stand together yet not too near together, for the pillars of the temple stand apart, and the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow kahlil gibran can we allow ... without expectation ...