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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Torbay, UK
Posts: 704
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Hi MargueirteBee...
The 'now' is also an important consideration. A lot of our misery comes from thinking about the past, or projecting forward into the future. Ask yourself about whatever you are doing, how do you feel now, this second? If you're feeding chickens.. enjoy the act of feeding chickens, try not to colour it with the thought.. 'I'm feeding chickens for so and so.. and they don't appreciate my help, they take me for granted.. I'm always feeding ruddy chickens, me. Just who do they think they are? Bet the chickens don't care either.... if you see what I mean ![]() There is only ever THIS SECOND. So how are we going to use it, and where are our thoughts during that second? Alternatively, the respone to: 'Can you help me out?' 'Yes, certainly sir, which way did you come in?' may help... Best wishes, K
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Northern California
Posts: 216
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Yes, this are the questions I went thru when I decided I will be happy no matter what, and I do enjoy feeding the chickens, they love it too! |
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Northern California
Posts: 216
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I have to put things into perspective. I went from living in a second story apartment where if the light bulb burned out all I had to do is call and they would come and change it, to running a cattle ranch and having to do everything myself while learning how. Whew!
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Amsterdam
Posts: 964
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So if someone sort of half 'nicks' the title of a thread, to start a thread of his/hers own with it, I suppose that could be called 'Service 2 Self = Service 2 Others'?
Or the other way round? As in: 'The door isn't where the window should be, & the window isn't where the door should be'.
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