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15th February 2011 14:59
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Re: Do Us All A Favour
Perhaps not a thread to duke it out...but a place where people who are feeling emotionally reactive can be supported in drawing out what ever is ailing them.
I know there's a ton of people in here who have that sort of experience and gotten themselves out of the hole via various means. I mean this may not be a place for therapy...but neither is there a place out there in the artificially constructed world either . And it would be hypocritical to say this place will offer you all the support you need on this journey but we won't explicitly and in the present offer you that support. Offering support. inner resources as one does their painful work alone. All the information we need for that is right here in this forum in some fashion or another, and that is something that people can begin to utilize productively now.
If people want the talking to stop and start doing something that is something that can be done, now. And results manifestation very close to instantaneously. Privacy issues? Do we really have a wound that someone else has not experienced for themselves. How would a community be embarrassed to share its dysfunction child abuse, etc etc if we have all been in that same dark place ourselves. Wounds aren't personal they are shared. By everyone in some fashion or another.
If not on forum than someplace easily accessible off forum. Current circumstances affect us all. How could it be personal. Because a person's wounds make it so. But we all have them so how personal can they be. Not to mention PM and chat functions can be utilized for issues of privacy.
Time is late. There comes a time and it has to be now when we all have to pull ourselves together or we will be of use to no one not even ourselves let alone each other. A time to claim SELF authority. When we all have that there are no longer any issues of self doubt and confusion and painful reactionary states. We can't give that which we don't have access to because of our pain. We need to clear out our crud an we know we can't go to the local psychotherapist who are abiding by Faction doctrine and not what is really good for us as free human spirits. People don't need to be treated for their pain, they need to be cured of their wounds and those who have walked the wounded path can help them not by wound wall lowing but leading them to their wholeness. Wholeness is only a path, a tool to be used in purpose. Its the only ones we need.
We are all wounded people. That which was imposed on us didn't occur just in this lifetime. It's generational, its in our psyche from life times of experiencing it. Humans are notorious for finding those who share their wounds they are a virtual magnet. That's why we have patterns in our life. And this is a pattern. Does this **** EVER end? No we see it here, at home, on other forums. A pattern. How long are we going to keep walking in circles? And we ID immediately with those wounds either in a passionate way that can expresses itself in well intentioned caring or in a way where the person sees their own wounds in others and are repelled by what they see. They find their own selves repellent and abuse the person who reflected their own self loathing back. So they hurl insults at that reflection in an awkward attempt to purge it. A cry for help"I'm trying to yark up my shadow self"
Well lets yark it up.
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15th February 2011 15:56
Link to Post #22