Can spirits help their loved ones and friends out of situations?

[somebodyyetnobody]

Okay, so first let me say that I believe in the reincarnation trap theory. Now that I've said that, let me ask this:

If a loved one or friend died years back and went into the light but hasn't been reincarnated yet, can they help their loved ones and friends that are still down here in small ways, despite them going into the white light of reincarnation but not reincarnating yet?

I asked because today, I was severely depressed, I have bills piling up and neither my sister nor I had been able to find teaching work no matter what we did. This morning, I was seriously considering.....ending it. Then I was crying this morning and saying in my mind, "David, (that's my friend and beloved family member) please help me." About two hours, I received an email from a job that I and my sister really want, and they want my sister and I to come for an interview tomorrow, plus I received two other texts and calls from jobs asking us to come for an interview.

I know for a fact we're going to get the first job offer (the first job being the one that I and my sister really want) because I know the director. I felt like David heard my crying and plea and somehow worked some kind of....magic from where he was and helped me (and my sister) a bit, because before those two hours, both my sister and I had absolutely nothing, no prospects, no calls from jobs, nothing, but then my cries, my plea for David to somehow help me from where he was and two hours later, I have three calls (my sister and I) from three different jobs, all wanting an interview.

So, can that happen? Like, can a loved one or friend died years back and went into the light but hasn't been reincarnated yet, can they help their loved ones and friends that are still down here in small ways, despite them going into the white light of reincarnation but not reincarnating yet? Even though I know that human spirits do not roam the earth, my question is from where they are, can they help their fellow loved ones and friends on earth, if their loved ones and friends are feeling depressed or just need help with situations in some way?

[Harmony]

It's wonderful to hear things are looking bright for you and your sister. I am not sure how help comes, but it does seem to come when we have faith and siincerely ask for the best outcome to situations we face often in our lives. These solutions can seemingly come out of the blue in ways we didn't imagine and the problem we faced can sometimes prove to have been the catylist of change and lessons learned from challenges faced.

I am sorry you were feeling so down and pleased all is well.

[RunningDeer]

Thanks for sharing your good news, somebodyyetnobody. There’s no question “magic” happens. Sometimes, I see it as the Desire+Belief+Expect Trilogy.

To your question: "Can spirits help their loved ones and friends out of situations?" Yes, my son passed. He and other Beings helped me through the grief process.

There are many of my family members who have passed that still drop in from time to time. More often than not it’s impossible to prove. I have a few concrete examples that I’ve shared on the forum. I’ll add one of them here:

In 2006, we lost sibling #8, our sister, Rebecca.

Several years later, another sister, Marie and I were coming back from a weekend party at our cousins' place. I was prompted by Rebecca to share what I felt. I told Marie that Rebecca was with us the whole weekend. She agreed, but it was more out of courtesy.

I added, “She’s in the back seat.”

Then out of the blue silly putty popped in my head. Rebecca kept prodding me to pass along the message.

“She's insisting that I ask you about silly putty.”

Marie is holding back tears while she reaches into the console and pulls out a silly putty egg. Unbeknownst to me, Rebecca gave it to her the year before her passing. It was a reminder for Marie to play.

♡

[Bill Ryan]

Yes, they certainly can. Here's a copy of this post of mine from last year:

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A close friend is highly skilled in this area (she herself is a past life therapist), and she clearly recalled that between this life and her previous one she'd acted as what some might call "a guardian angel" for a Jewish artist who escaped from Nazi Germany and made a long a difficult journey across Europe to end up in Spain.

He encountered many problems, again and again, and each time my friend, in her between-lives "guardian angel" persona, was able to help him continue safely.

She recalled all this without knowing a thing about this person in the "real world". But she recalled enough detail to be able to look him up and discover who this was, and sure enough, he'd written a book about his experience.

In his own personal account, he vividly described how many times, he'd most distinctly felt he was being assisted by "an unseen hand".

[ZenBaller]

Although we are all constantly helped, 24/7, by soul family, guides, angels, God, whatever it is up there, having expectations for external help will not help you ultimately. They can only provide some facilitation or short relief. They cannot save you. The whole point being here is to find yourself in utter darkness and realize that no one is here for you. What do you do when there's no hope in sight? There is only one path left: turning inwards with your awareness and finding your own strength which is -by the way- immense and limitless. We are here to realize that and it can only happen through this process.

[somebodyyetnobody]

Posted by Harmony (here)
It's wonderful to hear things are looking bright for you and your sister. I am not sure how help comes, but it does seem to come when we have faith and siincerely ask for the best outcome to situations we face often in our lives. These solutions can seemingly come out of the blue in ways we didn't imagine and the problem we faced can sometimes prove to have been the catylist of change and lessons learned from challenges faced.

I am sorry you were feeling so down and pleased all is well.

Posted by RunningDeer (here)

Thanks for sharing your good news, somebodyyetnobody. There’s no question “magic” happens. Sometimes, I see it as the Desire+Belief+Expect Trilogy.

To your question: "Can spirits help their loved ones and friends out of situations?" Yes, my son passed. He and other Beings helped me through the grief process.

There are many of my family members who have passed that still drop in from time to time. More often than not it’s impossible to prove. I have a few concrete examples that I’ve shared on the forum. I’ll add one of them here:

In 2006, we lost sibling #8, our sister, Rebecca.

Several years later, another sister, Marie and I were coming back from a weekend party at our cousins' place. I was prompted by Rebecca to share what I felt. I told Marie that Rebecca was with us the whole weekend. She agreed, but it was more out of courtesy.

I added, “She’s in the back seat.”

Then out of the blue silly putty popped in my head. Rebecca kept prodding me to pass along the message.

“She's insisting that I ask you about silly putty.”

Marie is holding back tears while she reaches into the console and pulls out a silly putty egg. Unbeknownst to me, Rebecca gave it to her the year before her passing. It was a reminder for Marie to play.

♡

Posted by Bill Ryan (here)
Yes, they certainly can. Here's a copy of this post of mine from last year:

~~~

A close friend is highly skilled in this area (she herself is a past life therapist), and she clearly recalled that between this life and her previous one she'd acted as what some might call "a guardian angel" for a Jewish artist who escaped from Nazi Germany and made a long a difficult journey across Europe to end up in Spain.

He encountered many problems, again and again, and each time my friend, in her between-lives "guardian angel" persona, was able to help him continue safely.

She recalled all this without knowing a thing about this person in the "real world". But she recalled enough detail to be able to look him up and discover who this was, and sure enough, he'd written a book about his experience.

In his own personal account, he vividly described how many times, he'd most distinctly felt he was being assisted by "an unseen hand".

Thank you for your comments, and the sharing of your experiences and the words of congrats, I truly appreciate it. I felt like passed on loved ones do help their still alive loved ones on Earth but I wasn't sure, I thought I was being nuts, but I know this is the first time, I asked for help from a passed on loved one and then felt actual help. This has never happened to me before so this is why I was taken aback and unsure of it all. One time my estranged father passed and I didn't know that he did until I kept seeing the same type of videos on Tiktok, videos containing the song "Dust In The Wind," and that song is connected to him a bit but I thought, "whatever, they're just videos," but then I saw one video with the song that had the words "death," and I knew, he had passed...and he did. So I tend to believe loved ones can still send messages and can help in small ways their loved ones and friends, despite going into the entrapping white light and despite awaiting reincarnation, a.k.a. re-incarceration. Anyway, thank you again, for all your comments and sharing of your experiences. I appreciate it

[somebodyyetnobody]

Posted by ZenBaller (here)
Although we are all constantly helped, 24/7, by soul family, guides, angels, God, whatever it is up there, having expectations for external help will not help you ultimately. They can only provide some facilitation or short relief. They cannot save you. The whole point being here is to find yourself in utter darkness and realize that no one is here for you. What do you do when there's no hope in sight? There is only one path left: turning inwards with your awareness and finding your own strength which is -by the way- immense and limitless. We are here to realize that and it can only happen through this process.

No, no one would have expectations, I didn't have any on yesterday when I asked for help, but I just asked because I often times talk to David when I'm down, either aloud or through mental thoughts, it just helps me feel less alone. However, I had no expectations.

Secondly, they can't save me - I didn't ask them to save me, nor do I need saving. Lastly, we're not here to realize anything except the fact that we're a food source for a group of human-hating reptilian parasites called the archons. We're not here to learn lessons or to have "human experiences" or any of that, we're here to be food for the parasites. This is a prison planet, a suffering prison planet that none of us are supposed to be on in the first place. So, no, one is is down here for us and while it is good to look inward for help and guidance but I will forever believe that there are outside forces, outside of this prison planet who are on our side and who we can turn to when we get down or when we just need that comforting feelings. The reptilian archon parasites would love for us to feel that we truly have no one to turn to and that we're all alone, except for ourselves. I don't believe that. I believe there are forces on the other side fighting these parasites on our behalf and doing what little that they can to make this prison serving experience that we're having down here just a little easier, until it's time for us to leave prison and be finally free.

[Michel Leclerc]

Posted by Bill Ryan (here)
Yes, they certainly can.

(...)

But she recalled enough detail to be able to look him up and discover who this was, and sure enough, he'd written a book about his experience.

In his own personal account, he vividly described how many times, he'd most distinctly felt he was being assisted by "an unseen hand".

[/INDENT]

Bill, thank you.

If it is at all possible, could you inquire with your friend (or do you know yourself) who this Jewish artist was/is? Those escape routes and the people who got through and who didn't is an ongoing interest of mine.. Thank you in advance for your asking and/or recollecting..

[Heart to heart]

A cry from the heart is always heard and responded to in a way that is good for the soul.

We are surrounded at all times by those guides and guardians who are there to inspire us and keep us on the correct path. Not an easy job in this materialistic upside-down world where LOVE is the ONLY way through.

We are loved more than we know by those who have charge concerning us and they will always answer our needs not our greeds. They understand our worth as sovereign human beings and encourage our cooperation in whatever way they are able to connect.

SYNCHRONICITY is the universe on the phone, you just have to be quiet and listen.

LOVE will always respond ❤️

I feel so happy for you ‘somebodyyetnobody.’

Never underestimate yourself or your power.

You are a beloved child of the universe.

[Michel Leclerc]

Posted by somebodyyetnobody (here)

(...)

This is a prison planet, a suffering prison planet that none of us are supposed to be on in the first place. So, no, one is is down here for us and while it is good to look inward for help and guidance but I will forever believe that there are outside forces, outside of this prison planet who are on our side and who we can turn to when we get down or when we just need that comforting feelings.

(...)

Dear nobodyyetsomebody – my respect for what you believe.. yet.. we are them (the good ones and the bad ones, and mixes of them) .. those outside forces are also inside – in an incarnated state – those who I love are those who love me (this is the greatest secret).. no archons or whatever have any power when love happens ..love, hope and faith.. when one is there the other two are there..

be loving teachers

[Pam]

Posted by somebodyyetnobody (here)
Okay, so first let me say that I believe in the reincarnation trap theory. Now that I've said that, let me ask this:

If a loved one or friend died years back and went into the light but hasn't been reincarnated yet, can they help their loved ones and friends that are still down here in small ways, despite them going into the white light of reincarnation but not reincarnating yet?

I asked because today, I was severely depressed, I have bills piling up and neither my sister nor I had been able to find teaching work no matter what we did. This morning, I was seriously considering.....ending it. Then I was crying this morning and saying in my mind, "David, (that's my friend and beloved family member) please help me." About two hours, I received an email from a job that I and my sister really want, and they want my sister and I to come for an interview tomorrow, plus I received two other texts and calls from jobs asking us to come for an interview.

I know for a fact we're going to get the first job offer (the first job being the one that I and my sister really want) because I know the director. I felt like David heard my crying and plea and somehow worked some kind of....magic from where he was and helped me (and my sister) a bit, because before those two hours, both my sister and I had absolutely nothing, no prospects, no calls from jobs, nothing, but then my cries, my plea for David to somehow help me from where he was and two hours later, I have three calls (my sister and I) from three different jobs, all wanting an interview.

So, can that happen? Like, can a loved one or friend died years back and went into the light but hasn't been reincarnated yet, can they help their loved ones and friends that are still down here in small ways, despite them going into the white light of reincarnation but not reincarnating yet? Even though I know that human spirits do not roam the earth, my question is from where they are, can they help their fellow loved ones and friends on earth, if their loved ones and friends are feeling depressed or just need help with situations in some way?

What if your request for help from a loved one allowed you have a tiny opening to new possibility. What if love that was sent to you can not be inverted. Maybe love simply can't be inverted here on this planet at all. This thought just occurred to me, I never thought about it before. I see how everything else that is supposedly good can and will be weaponized here, but not genuine love. Particularly if it is not coming from our frequency. It entered fresh and untainted.

Sure the concept of love is distorted and lied about constantly, but genuine, clean love that is offered from outside the realm we are in may well carry so much possibility it would blow our little old minds.

Cultures that practice or practiced ancestor worship must have done or do it for a reason.

At any rate, congratulations. You may have a problem of which to pick from many options!!!!

[Ewan]

I must say I think Project Avalon must be one of the nicest safest havens on the internet. So many open-hearted, open-minded people willing to share and care. Bless you all.

[thepainterdoug]

somebodyyetnobody/ thanks for your post and Im happy for your good news.

This is something I ponder every day and I feel there is no way to know, unless you know , you know !

I compare it to taking vitamins. so I take many supplements and try to research and be smart about all I do, even though I temper the so called "good" with some so called "bad", (whisky and an occassional cigar ). But I believe both need be present in the right measure.

So I am enjoying very good health right now !! Is it the vitamins and supplements? How can I know? you dont take supplements and then same day feel better. But when I look back collectively over the years , I think it has made a big difference. But again, there is no way to really know? I know drunks that have outlived vegetarians.

Today I just got some disappointing news. I entered my Musical Hypnotta in a call for musicals at a major university. I was truly hoping to get this and I found out today I did not
So now, what do I think? I prayed as I always do every day, to God, my angels, spirit guides and my mom and dad who are passed on. Why did no one help me regarding this?
I did so much work and the show has such a beautiful message.

Well no matter what happens, we will rationalize it. How can I know that its better my show did not get chosen because something much better is coming?
Or that that was fools gold?
Well no matter what, we are left with no way of ever knowing.

I get most of my spiritual advice and guidance from the NDE people. i dont believe that reincarnating is a soul trap. I believe it is a sprit choice. Too many have testified to crossing over and understanding how we choose to come here or not.

I really dont know much about anything but my intuitions are my best guide.

Regardless of the setback today, I have decided to be happy and grateful that I was given the life i have to write my show.
Perhaps all god wanted from me was to keep busy with a project and to do good things.

Well, Onward we go
pd

[RunningDeer]

Posted by thepainterdoug (here)
even though I temper the so called "good" with some so called "bad", (whisky and an occassional cigar ). But I believe both need be present in the right measure.

Today I just got some disappointing news. I entered my Musical Hypnotta in a call for musicals at a major university. I was truly hoping to get this and I found out today I did not
So now, what do I think? I prayed as I always do every day, to God, my angels, spirit guides and my mom and dad who are passed on. Why did no one help me regarding this?
I did so much work and the show has such a beautiful message.
Well, Onward we go
pd

For you, Doug. Sorry it didn’t work out as planned.

It’s times like this I wish to pass along comforting words, instead I get crickets in 'me' brain.

[pyrangello]

My father always told me you can wish it to happen , you can't want it to happen, you have to expect it to happen. When asking for an intercession. In my case that it has happened to me so many times I just stay on the path and keep an open mind that wherever I am going it is going to be fine, it will work out and if that opportunity didn't happen it was because there was something else around the corner that should. Just believe in forward motion and don't look behind you . It will be ok, things will be fine and yes it will work out, it always does.

There have been times where I have prayed for intersession, one time I asked all the angels and saints for assistance when my buddy's wife had open heart surgery, she said she was so scared going into the hospital she almost turned around and ran . I used every bit of my conviction to ask for help to guide her thru this. When my buddies wife woke up in the hospital she said there were 2 images of people in her room, one old man and one old woman , she said nobody else could see them in the room and they were surrounded by a slight aura, they stayed there day and night until she got better. My buddies wife told me that the old woman had a connection to me and she could feel it. I just smiled.

Whenever you are sleeping and your family member's come to you , that isnt a dream, they are there to visit you and help guide you or just visit you. I've only been visited by my grandmother twice and my dad twice and a girl who I fell in love with 10 years ago who passed, she came to me in a dream/coffee shop, walked in the door and gave me a kiss and at that moment I felt she knew that all the love was validated when she was here on earth, she smiled and then she just turned around and walked away and I knew she was o.k.and so did she. When I came out of that I could feel that presence, oh man was that powerful.

[thepainterdoug]

RunningDeer, and btw what a great Avalon name. I am always happy when I see it appear. Many thanks to you!! You lost a son. I am humbled. Have you ever seen the movie Jeremiah Johnson? In the movie, a settler woman looses her children and the Indians say, she is touched. You are touched, at least that s what i feel and it bestowes upon you a grace . I deeply respect things you say.

pyrangello/ i had a dream similar to the one about the girl you had. they are so fortifying They can fuel you for the rest of your days

There are no answers.
I believe Avlon is just a place for holding hands

[RunningDeer]

Posted by thepainterdoug (here)
RunningDeer, and btw what a great Avalon name. I am always happy when I see it appear. Many thanks to you!! You lost a son. I am humbled. Have you ever seen the movie Jeremiah Johnson? In the movie, a settler woman looses her children and the Indians say, she is touched. You are touched, at least that s what i feel and it bestowes upon you a grace . I deeply respect things you say.

Thank you and much appreciation, Doug. I lost count on how many times I watched “Jeremiah Johnson”.

Princess RunningDeer was a guide of mine in the early 1970’s. She’s Native American. Because of her status, she's dressed in white deer buckskin. Shortly after, this white deer buckskin power bag was gifted to me. With her blessing, I changed my avatar name from WhiteCrowBlackDeer to RunningDeer.

I had an unusual animal sighting to the lead up and after my son’s passing. And I had a couple of premonitions in the form of a subtle, but electric full body sensation that I had never experienced. I just knew something big was going to happen. I put it out of my mind (denial) and because the workday was about to begin. Then on my way to the book store after work, I saw a flash of my son in the rearview mirror. Somehow Michael filled the back seat. His spirit was huge. I now understand it was round the time he had passed.

I should mention that he was 23 and shared rent with a couple of guys. They traveled for work installing ventilation exhaust ducts like you see factory type buildings, 12 hours a day, 4 days a week. So it wasn’t out of the ordinary for us to not be in regular contact. It was also the era of pagers (beepers).

This is a condensed version of what’s posted elsewhere on the forum.

The night before Michael’s funeral I was in a bad way. My bedroom was stacked with packed up books. I tore through a box and grabbed the “Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah“. Michael answered my questions through the random pages I turned until peace and silence filled me.

I was directed to go to my office which was two floors down. I pulled open the computer keyboard shelf and there was a feather. I preserved the precious gift in a transparent baseball envelop, and tucked it in my power bag. It brought me strength and assurance that Michael was but a thought away. A couple of days later the feather gift was gone.

There were many spiritual signs that helped me get through such as in the fall before Michael’s death, I saw a white squirrel and the following spring after I called out to Source, I saw the little guy again. I got a knowing to look out the window and that’s when the white squirrel scurried across a branch. It was about a half hour after a blue jay landed a few feet away by the window where I sat at ground level in my office. The blue jay was white where it’s typically blue, and it had purple feathers where they’re usually white. And when I doubted my request to Source another blue jay landed next to the white one with a squawk as if to say, “Now to do believe?”

Fast forward, a few years later, I called out to Source for a sign or confirmation. Less than a half an hour, there was white crow in the pine tree outside my window caw-cawing back at a few birds that didn’t appreciate it in their territory. The same thing happened when I reached out to Source a few months later. Only it was a black deer in the middle of the country road waiting for his friend to cross the field. I was out with my dog for a walk when he scooted into the woods.

There were many more blessed gifts and encounters during that era. It helped me be present, aware and know there’s more than this dimension when your heart is open to all possibility.

♡

[thepainterdoug]

Running Deer

thank you. what can be said?