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4th June 2016 09:54
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Re: Islamophobia: Why Are So Many, So Frightened
I should probably stay out of this thread as I am filled with horror at all Abrahamic religions, & indeed any human-centric creed which disregards the rights & feelings of fellow sentients. . . but I'd like to share a few thoughts, if I may.
I work for a small, Jewish-family owned business, & 3 of my colleagues are Muslims.
We all get along very well. But when the sacrificial Eid comes around (there are apparently 2 Eids) I can not look them in the face; one of them is always close to tears, because she has had 2 or 3 lambs running around her house for a week or more, being petted & adored by the children, only to have their throats cut at the appointed hour. She shared with me how "brave" her little son was, helping to hold the lambs down while they were being murdered. To me, this is not bravery, but the intentional development of callouness, not to mention serious cognitive dissonance.
At work, these 2 ladies dress in fashionable western attire, high heels, make-up, hair uncovered & loose; yet back at home, they put on the black cloaks & cover their hair.. . .it seems such hypocrisy, to cover oneself in the presence of FAMILY, but flaunt one's assets in public.
I have tried, obliquely,to find out their reasoning behind this but they will not be drawn, except to insist that they find it "liberating" to be covered in public from the stares of men; though I have never seen either of them in their Muslim attire. I can actually understand the feeling, if not the logic, behind being veiled in public - the country I have chosen to live in has a violent history, & every day there is another case of rape, often of small children. Men make remarks (which I do not understand, but get a nasty feel from) at my daughter as we pass; this is not the Spanish or Italian version of piropo, which while annoying, is generally meant as a compliment by the perpetrator. Here, there is a veiled threat, a hint that they can & will take whatever they want.
The 3rd Muslim at work is a man, a sort of sub-contractor, who is lively, amusing & irreverent, & dresses like any younger male in western society. Yet his wife & daughters have to be veiled when they are with him; his personality also changes in their presence.
Finally, if I may add another anecdote from my own experiences - years ago I used to attend a Hindu temple quite regularly, dressed in a sari so as to blend in with the others present; after I moved to this country, the only Hindu temple near me was ISKON - the Hare Krishna (Vaishnava) temple, where I would often go simply to be in the presence of others who did not consume flesh (although they did eat cheese & milk, which was, to me, evidence of misinterpretation & cognitive dissonance) although the food they served was delicious
But the whole "performance" that motivated most of these well-meaning people, who I liked individually, was all based on "Theatre" & ritual. I am convinced that ritual carves out a furrow in the brain beyond which no sane thought can pass - as in the majority of Muslims, as well as adherents of any ritual-based religion. It sets in motion the mechanical ego, & switches off the sensitive, intuitive self. (I can see a possible value in ritual for those who may be mentally or emotionally unstable for whatever reason, to stabilze the reactive self.)
But mostly, it seems to be a convenient habit, & effectively sets followers up on "railroads", which they mechanically run up & down. Perhaps all bias, prejudice & conformism is the result of this way of thinking? Here, I suspect the Fourth Way schools are able to broaden the mind at least to the level of being free to Experience directly, rather than blindly accept the experiences of others as some sort of cosmic law.
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4th June 2016 11:17
Link to Post #42