Here and Now...What's Happening?

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Posted by 9eagle9 (here)
We're safe as long as she's not turning into a meatfork. If she does she will be my right hand woman...lol.

You mean me? Even if the eagle is my higher astrological animal totem i didn' get this one...languageproblems again....

[ulli]

Posted by Calz_Avaretard (here)
When I push hard, people actually hear my voice in their heads.

... and why it is so important to get that "Carmody to English" translation software on the market???

There was a Native American Bahai, Kevin Locke, a Dakota hoop dancer.
He became a member of the National Assembly of the Bahais of the US.
Even then the refused to get a telephone, as he could hear it in his head
when meetings were being convened and he had to get a plane ticket to attend.
It never failed.
Of course as long as Heyoka and Calz are around I wouldn't let my shield down, but I trust Carmody.
He is discreet and wishes no harm.

[Carmody]

Posted by Calz_Avaretard (here)

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)

I shudder everytime someone gets that glazed look in their eyes and vapidly stares off into the future envisioning a time when 'women will rule the earth".

To men who say this, I say ..."I'm not cooking, not cleaning, not spitting out any more kids, not shutting up, not wiping ass....or kissing it. Been there done that. Had the 'experience' so to speak.
...so I'm sure what you're getting so excited about. "

To woman who hold this vision,I say back..."Okay you'll end up cooking, cleaning,and wiping ass when not kissing it.. So I'm not sure what you are getting so excited about..."

It cannot get any worse than what we have experienced under unbalanced male control (at least limiting the spectrum to humanity).

The pendulum will swing on the other direction and will evolve into whatever extreme it does. It will probably be shocking to today's sensibilities. As it always is. The truth of the matter is that the Female has always been the more extreme in direct violence, regarding the females of the species on this planet. Meaning overall, not just human species. The males, overall, procreate. The females, on the other hand must protect the brood. So the females are notably more violent in a clash of wills involving life or death.

There is also the point that the females of the human species decide whom they procreate with, so they have the ultimate control and last say. Anyone with an ounce of sense understands this. This is the source of the 'yes' man who is the successful husband, in the western system of 'marriage'.

It reminds me of a complaint in a student engineering newspaper, for a major university. I was reading it one day and laughed my butt off. It was in the classified section and it was notice and plea/inquiry from Robert's friends as to what had happened to him. They wanted him to go out partying with them more often, like the days of old. But he had met a young woman and he had suddenly left his **** at home, in a jar, on the shelf, every time he went out with her, They said. So they wanted to bring that to his attention and they urged him to take it with him, even if he just kept it in the car or in his knapsack.


https://youtube.com/watch?v=Z1CkHCYbkKM

[Calz]

Posted by ulli (here)
but I trust Carmody.
He is discreet and wishes no harm.

Nothing to do with trust.

I trust Carmody as well ... why would anyone who has been here for any length of time think otherwise???

Talkin bout that "carmody speak" ya know .... like "graduating multidimensional being" to "the Fool" type of talk.

Perhaps you and Heyoka have it all covered and I am the only one whistling dixie when he gets on a roll??? Good on you!

[ulli]

Posted by Carmody (here)

Posted by Calz_Avaretard (here)

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)

I shudder everytime someone gets that glazed look in their eyes and vapidly stares off into the future envisioning a time when 'women will rule the earth".

To men who say this, I say ..."I'm not cooking, not cleaning, not spitting out any more kids, not shutting up, not wiping ass....or kissing it. Been there done that. Had the 'experience' so to speak.
...so I'm sure what you're getting so excited about. "

To woman who hold this vision,I say back..."Okay you'll end up cooking, cleaning,and wiping ass when not kissing it.. So I'm not sure what you are getting so excited about..."

It cannot get any worse than what we have experienced under unbalanced male control (at least limiting the spectrum to humanity).

The pendulum will swing on the other direction and will evolve into whatever extreme it does. It will probably be shocking to today's sensibilities. As it always is. He truth of the matter is that the Female has always been the more extreme in direct violence, regarding the females of the species on this planet. Meaning overall, not just human species. The males, overall, procreate. The females, on the other hand must protect the brood. so the females are notably more violent in a clash of wills involving life or death.

Thre is also the point that the females of the human species decide whom they procreate with, so they have the ultimate control and last say. Anyone with an ounce of sense understands this. This is the source of the 'yes' man who is the successful husband, in the western system of 'marriage'.

It reminds me of a complaint in a student engineering newspaper, for a major university. I was reading it one day and laughed my butt off. It was in the classified section and it was notice and plea/inquiry from Robert's friends as to what had happened to him. They wanted him to go out partying with them more often, like the days of old. But he had met a young woman and he had suddenly left his **** at home, in a jar, on the shelf, every time he went out with her, They said. So they wanted to bring that to his attention and they urged him to take it with him, even if he just kept it in the car or in his knapsack.

I get your point, Carmody. But I still think in the long run (big picture) it all balances out.
No one is ahead of the other.
The art of negotiation has to be learnt, by either side.
I have given many readings to very angry mums, angry about their husbands not living up to expectations.
I would then point out how the scene would look from the man's perspective.
Coming home from work is meant to be entering a place of refuge. Instead it is usually mayhem, nowadays.
Plus having to worry about 3 D maintenance, the kid's education, and security.
Once these women got to see things from the guy's point of view they fell in love with their men again.

My main job as an astrologer, the way I saw it, was to keep the family nest intact,
to save the kids from going through what my son had gone through
when he was six years old and his parents went through a divorce.

[9eagle9]

The principal of male and female unity is basically women intuitively know what has to be done. And men intuitively know how to do it. Now if we could unwarp our understanding here consider what sorts of amazing things could be wrought from this. This transcends the Hearth Keeper-Nurturer vs Hunter-Warrior Archetypes and really puts us back into a place of co creation.

As far as violence, at one time it was a key component creation matrix. A volcano didn't sprout gently from the earth to shape mountains and continents it erupted in a volatile fashion.

And the concept got corrupted and perverted. As demonstrated by the violence of childbirth that is beginning to abate a little bit as we begin to understand the nature of the process. Why can some women put their tasks aside and go have a baby with no pain and cook dinner an hour later and why do we have this Westernized paradigm of its all horror, and bloody and painful and requires a period of confinement as if someone had just suffered a dread disease.

Our minds, our conditioning imposing unflattering influence on concepts that were once entirely and naturally and unmindfully expressed.

[ulli]

Posted by transiten (here)

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)
We're safe as long as she's not turning into a meatfork. If she does she will be my right hand woman...lol.

You mean me? Even if the eagle is my higher astrological animal totem i didn' get this one...languageproblems again....

Lovely picture, transition. (editing here: typo accidental? transition in transition...I don't believe in accidents when it comes to typos, nor Freudian slips.)
And I'm sure even if it is out of date it captures your eternal essence.
I'm ready to sing along.

[Calz]

Posted by ulli (here)

My main job as an astrologer, the way I saw it, was to keep the family nest intact,
to save the kids from going through what my son had gone through
when he was six years old and his parents went through a divorce.

Whole post was good ... but kudos for this part

There are toxic marriages to be sure ... and complications gallore. No easy answers but we owe it to our children to do the best we can with whatever hand we are dealt with.

[ulli]

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)
The principal of male and female unity is basically women intuitively know what has to be done. And men intuitively know how to do it.

Great quote. Those men who want to deny their wives their sovereignty usually have wives
who don't acknowledge or compliment them for the capacities they have.

Mutual support in gender roles. But whole cultures have been set up that feed the mutual undermining.

[9eagle9]

More in the nature of a long running joke about women and meatforks that has endured for however long and origins can't be immedieately recalled.

Posted by transiten (here)

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)
We're safe as long as she's not turning into a meatfork. If she does she will be my right hand woman...lol.

You mean me? Even if the eagle is my higher astrological animal totem i didn' get this one...languageproblems again....

[PurpleLama]

We still didn't get Calz to explain the spongebob video, however. O.o

[Calz]

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)
More in the nature of a long running joke about women and meatforks that has endured for however long and origins can't be immedieately recalled.

Yep ... my bad.

Cast all rusty meatforks my way.

I implored a great member and friend to come "frolic" here (just like a couple other members did on my behalf) and the "meatfork" was the "bait" (as that Bill person likes to call it).

Great source of wisdom here and I highly suggest open arms into our village (that is ... if you are willing to listen to the Fool ).

[ulli]

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)
More in the nature of a long running joke about women and meatforks that has endured for however long and origins can't be immedieately recalled.

Posted by transiten (here)

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)
We're safe as long as she's not turning into a meatfork. If she does she will be my right hand woman...lol.

You mean me? Even if the eagle is my higher astrological animal totem i didn' get this one...languageproblems again....

9 eagle9, I remember the days of the Margaritas in the laundry room when I first joined Avalon.
I also remember the first post of yours I read...I should have written it down....made me laugh out loud.
About being born a 10 pound baby with dark skin, with your Karma being how to challenge your mother's racism during the first two months of your life.

[Calz]

Posted by PurpleLama (here)
We still didn't get Calz to explain the spongebob video, however. O.o

Watch it there Purple Staff Nugget or else I will conjure the Sponge Bob "I Love Big Butts" next!!!

[ulli]

Posted by Calz_Avaretard (here)

Posted by PurpleLama (here)
We still didn't get Calz to explain the spongebob video, however. O.o

Watch it there Purple Staff Nugget or else I will conjure the Sponge Bob "I Love Big Butts" next!!!

This thread allows the word "nugget"...in fact this village is full of nuggets. Unlike another forum....

[9eagle9]

We see in healthy relationships very base level apparent manifestations of co creation between couples. They create a great life between themselves.

The mutual respect has to be in place there. I have so many higher level concepts that man who are working in the same level can bang out complete detailed, alchemical, scientific, philosophical, technological proponents to support my concept. I only had the concept, me brain doesn't allow for all this other high falutin' logical stuff. When they present it I understand it an abstract way but I can't demonstrate it or even find the language for it. Its like they have the knowledge of how to intiate something into form but without the inspiration or the presentation of the female concept that knowledge remains dormant.

But we have to get out of that ownership paradigm where we own the idea and the concept and how its done. Anything that is created between two or more is shared there's not ownership in there. Traditionally men are better earners than women and maybe that's why ---they KNOW how to do it, women know it should and can be done or where its best done at but men have that active fire energy.

But on the flip side....

Likely is why we've been happy assholing into this downward spiral of war after war after war for thousands of years. Women KNEW that didn't need to be done, but we had no voice, and men not having a new concept to set off their inspirational proccesses sort of got stuck in this venomous rut. War itself really revolves around ..ownership. Greed.

Hopefully we can move this into a place where women conceptualize not having to war (or own) and men will know how to facilitate the proponents that prop up that concept so it be created.

People very much venerate the idea of a woman's intuition the water energy, but a intuitive concept has to have the mans iinput to be born into form. Not to say all women are useless at that part of it but how much more effective could we be getting into aflow instead resistance. So men have been equally put down in this whole patriachal nightmare. There was more doing than conceiving (female conceptualizing)

Posted by ulli (here)

Posted by 9eagle9 (here)
The principal of male and female unity is basically women intuitively know what has to be done. And men intuitively know how to do it.

Great quote. Those men who want to deny their wives their sovereignty usually have wives
who don't acknowledge or compliment them for the capacities they have.

Mutual support in gender roles. But whole cultures have been set up that feed the mutual undermining.

[Calz]

Posted by ulli (here)

This thread allows the word "nugget"...in fact this village is full of nuggets. Unlike another forum....

So tired of getting asked ... "what's nugget mean" that perhaps it should have it's own forum or perhaps part of the forum guidlines???

Perhaps a Purple Wizard (aka microsoft word type) that comes floating down and answers the nugget question???

PL you up to dat???

Hey ... we are coming into the creating time ... let me flex my muscles!!!

[PurpleLama]

I sincerely feel that defining "nugget" should be left up to dark lord of the sith. I've only used the term once not in reference to chic-fil-a, and then I was impersonating ol' Sid.

[Lisab]

Ive spent the last four years on my own after being in relationships with guys all my life, even thru school, I always had a boyfriend. Ulli knows my chart and Ive always been impulsive when it comes to guys, so its been no mean feat being on my own but I just knew it had to be done. My last relationship was the worst ever and a total karmic nightmare. It was like being married to my mother! But definately the one I needed for growth. It sounds a cliche but Im finally getting to know me and I like it. My only bugbear is the sometime pitying looks I get from my friends. I wanna scream "IM SINGLE, NOT DYING YA KNOW"!

But I feel sorry for guys at the moment, as the male/female energies are intergrating they look scared. Not talking about guys here of course. Im just seeing it all around me like my brother and certain friends, bosses etc.

[Lisab]

But of course we totally gave up our power to men. For that I accept responsibility.