Hit the Restart Button: Decide by Design

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"Goal: Upgrade in Belief System"

Summary: You are in charge, equipped with the Power of Choice. Decision. Decide by design. Allow no one to blindfold your Birthright.

Reminders of What You Already Know:
Change the wish-list to a reality-list.
No magic required. It only takes a change in beliefs. Maybe only a 5-10 degree turn for a substantial gain of a fresh perspective. You know the ones, the beliefs that hold one captive for a lifetime. What a waste of a Brilliant Wonder!

For your sake, please, please, wake up.
Knock-knock. Who’s there? A Brilliant Wonder who doesn’t see as yet. And many of us do see the real you. We’re not giving up. But you are in charge. One of the many gifts given is the Power of Choice. Decision. Decide by design.

Some humans have bought into giving away power by believing that others have the perfect solutions for our concerns. We’re so busy taking their advice we fail to see how out of balance they really are themselves.

They are working hard at pointing out how you ‘should’ make it neater, better, cleaner, faster, thinner, smarter, quicker, greater, smaller, rounder, smilier. All the while unable to see that their sage advice is their own wish-lists for themselves. (I promise not to bring up the mirror analogy thing.) There’s a relationship imbalance of care, support, encouragement, from the subtle to the overt sabotage.

Coming Full Circle:
Here comes the but - in the end - blame (this may be too harsh a word, but I’ll continue because I’ve let go of the belief of ‘must be perfect’) continuing...in the end, blame comes full circle. A 360 degree Realization. You are responsible for how your life plays out. If that means saying good-bye to non-supporters so be it.

Top of the reality-list:
Your discovery of the ever expanding, Blessed You. Let me be the first to say, kudos and congratulations for your decision. Not only have you grown in light, but you’ve provided the other(s) a chance for a lighter, light-life, too.

Summary:
Brilliant Wonder, You are in charge. You are the Power of Choice. Decisions by design. Decide by design. Hold the mantra until it becomes a part of you without any thought of action on your part.

Hearts,
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