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The other day, we had news of a friend of my son’s, who has just qualified as a teacher of children with learning difficulties (éducateur), and has walked straight into a job, as men always do in the caring professions, being so few in number. Why should this be, given that the male of the species is notoriously deadlier than the female?
Why is a male presence ever useful? I like to see it in terms of relative heart rates. (This is my own idea, although I believe some research has been done in this area). When a man takes a woman literally to his heart, to hug her, their heart beats will tend slightly towards synchronization. The woman’s will drop slightly, with a soothing effect, the man’s will race ever so slightly, which is possibly its own reward. The same thing happens between a mother and child (this time with the woman on the other side of the equation), and also with a man and child, although the differential may be too great for some men.
So hugging is like a mixing of vibrational frequencies on the physical level, and is variously rewarding for all concerned. Sticking my neck out here, I suspect that violence may be a dysfunctioning of this mechanism. Indeed anger and rage are cases of heart rates racing off the scale. This might help to explain why so much violence is sexual in nature.
This would also explain the major difference between sport and warfare recently discussed during the Olympics. The typical athlete will have a very low heart rate, resulting from intensive training. This means that the best will be operating at a more comfortable, more controlled faster rate than their rivals.
That is why so much talk of increasing our vibrational frequencies is extremely dangerous, if not balanced with a similar decrease, also known as grounding.
In the human species the female is more deadly (these are generalizations), when the young are threatened. This is backed in the idea and record of research done on what parts of the mind can are engaged in the given situation. The human mind, male or female, mechanistically speaking, has similar-to-idenitical components. More identical than similar. Within those components, regarding relationships, the male bonds to the female and has to die an internal death when the relationship ends. nature has provided, in a way that will quickly become clear. when that relationship fails, the male feels that his entire world and life has ended. Thus this domestic violence issue. The female, has evolved over millennia, so that the loss of the one component allows the family to continue. The general shift is that the same component of internal death and loss of all, for the female, is shifted into that eruption in the mind occurring as attachment to and loss of children.
If you want to see a prison full of women who have committed ghastly crimes, give them the means, motivation,and situation... as the male has ---and threaten, and end - the children. The male is attached to the female in the same way that the female is attached to the children. These are generalizations, or averages.. as they need be, as differentials exist in all people.
For example, it has been shown that, the the larger or average sense... lesbians and homosexuals have the cranial wiring of their counterparts, in the most literal way. That yes, they really are a woman trapped in a man's body and a man trapped in a woman's body. Thus, what the radical right or religiously literate propose, regarding attractions in sexes of people and all in that area... is in all ways, at the core, outside of the realm of correctness and reality.
As for the rest, I do agree, regarding grounding. One has to balance the sight and feel and taste of capacity, with some sort of reasoning attached to the heights. So every now and then...I mention 'this is possible'. Then, I mention it no more.
The problem can become a large issue, if the persons involved in giving out the advice, have no experience on both sides of the given subject under discussion. As if they are giving advice in areas where 50% of the material they attempt to debate, is outside of their experience and knowledge. It can be a literal case of the blind attempting to 'school' the sighted --in the realm of sight.
It is true, that a given psychic or dimensional capacity does in no way indicate capacity for mental balance and reasoning. Thus, an area of suspect direction can erupt, ie a potential for disservice to the given seeker. The prior mentioned point of knowledge bases still remains as a core issue, in that those who do not have such experiences (and or capacity) cannot automatically relegate those who do have capacity - as being irresponsible.
This is a tricky time for humanity and caution is advised. Nevertheless, the forward motion will continue. Both -hand in hand. It cannot be case of caution, without forward motion. Likewise, it cannot be forward motion, with no caution (developmental stability). For the entire point, is considered to be the forward motion.
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I knew it - a whole stretch of three hours in a pure Delta wave state. I am certain that's when they get me. OK, satisfied I am ok, I go to the coffee machine and depress the on button and patiently begin my most horrid moments of each and every day - the in between stage between my waking state and that kick in from the first full cup of coffee.
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