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1st April 2013 04:13
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Re: What technologies, activities or concepts will be made obsolete by Free Energy
I see nations as a projection of possession (ownership): "This is my county!!"
On a lower level we have the town: "This is my town!" (or "my neighborhood!")
Going even lower we have families: "This is my family!"
And it probably boils down to: "This is my stuff" (my house, my car, my room, my money... etc).
PS: Yes, I believe the current "family unit" is scarcity based and will become obsolete or at least radically transformed in an Abundant world.
Marriage today, is mostly about being energy efficient and does not have much to do with love. I understand why that may not be very palatable for married couples, but ask yourself this: if you had access to all the resources you need (financial and otherwise) would it still make sense for you to marry? How would being married enrich your love for one another?
Moving together means expenses get divided by two. You no longer spend money to see each other (since you now live in the same house). Also moving together and getting married makes sure you "take ownership" of the other person. They become "yours" now! And you become theirs (and that somehow "feels good" - at least for a while...). I think there are even laws to make sure this bond is not broken
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And next we have families. In the past a large family meant a larger workforce and so a better chance to live through the harsh times. Today I see people around me, making children as an "extension of themselves". "This child is MY creation", "I did this this!", "Whatever I failed MY child will do". Obviously there are exceptions. And I believe most parent do love their children, but they are deeply programed in scarcity and that reflects in the way they grown and care for "the little ones".
Now, I am not saying that couples should not move together, or that marriage should be abolished, or that we should no longer have kids! What I am saying is that, in abundant world, much of the reasons and pressures behind those will go away. And so moving together or getting married will no longer be about energy efficiency and it will have a very different flavor. Also ownership will go away. And as for having children, I suspect "who's your mom and dad" will no longer matter as much (if at all!). The child is another human being worthy of all the love and care than any other human being enjoys and that's that.
A clarification. I don't have any children, so I may talk bollocks here. I am told that there is a special connection formed between a child and his parents (especially the mother). That may be so, but my point is, in an abundant world is perfectly safe and enjoyable to "bond" with any child, regardless if the child has your DNA on not... Perhaps some foster parents can understand this better. Why limit your love to one person when you can love everybody
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1st April 2013 05:12
Link to Post #462