Do you feel ready now to meet the right one?

[Natalia]

I do (soon or now)...and looking back I can see how it was not the best time for me to meet the right one before now! Gosh it's been so lonely at times, but sometimes we need "alone" healing time...I have experienced the dark night of the soul and it wasn't a good time to meet someone then! But perhaps some people will and it's not set in stone...

[Matt P]

I always found that when I was looking, the right lady never came along but when I stopped looking (and thinking or worrying about it) and focused on just living life to my fullest, it happened.

Matt

[Milneman]

And being lonely is such a turn off for most people, isn't it? It's bizarre how that happens!

Embrace it. It's hard, I know, but I've taken some risks and met some people. I'm going on another date tonight with someone I'm not completely sure about. Big time walls. We'll see.

[scanner]

I know how you feel .

[Natalia]

Posted by Milneman (here)
And being lonely is such a turn off for most people, isn't it? It's bizarre how that happens!

I find something beautiful about loneliness...but sometimes people want to back away from too much needyness...

Posted by Milneman (here)
Embrace it. It's hard, I know, but I've taken some risks and met some people. I'm going on another date tonight with someone I'm not completely sure about. Big time walls. We'll see.

I hope it goes well and I respect you for trying (those walls, hehe with me they can go up and down)

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=iP9hDVRplvM

[avid]

hopefully sometime soon

[cheez_2806]

Is there anything deep down like are you afraid of something? you can never be ready for something unexpected...or can you?

[sirdipswitch]

I never knew loneliness untill becoming Human, before which I lived with my one and only True Love, for 328 Trillion years, and now have returned to that life, and her, to live in conjunction with this. For all time.

As I keep stating... there is FAR more reason to go Astral, than just playing in the Astral Realms. Communion with HIGH SELF... is imperative.

[Shezbeth]

My experience can be summarized thusly:

Being 'ready' to meet the right person is equally about being ready to be the right person for someone else. I found my match both by finding the 'right one for me' and by finding 'the one whom I was right for', in a realistic and conducive sense, as opposed to an idealistic or aspiring sense. My partner had/has as much work to do as I did/do, and this has enabled us to grow together.

[jagman]

I think it was John Lennon who was quoted saying "Life is what happens while your busy
making other plans." I have been alone for a few years and have enjoyed myself lol
but recently I have found myself thinking about this woman who is actually a member
here.

[ghostrider]

Posted by Milneman (here)
And being lonely is such a turn off for most people, isn't it? It's bizarre how that happens!

Embrace it. It's hard, I know, but I've taken some risks and met some people. I'm going on another date tonight with someone I'm not completely sure about. Big time walls. We'll see.

I spent 7 years alone after my divorce , learning to just be yourself and let others decide if it's a fit or not ... be yourself ... there is no substitute for the natural , the real ... let the wall down , for out on the limb is where the FRUIT grows ... the second time it will be easier ...you will become comfortable with being an open book , word gets out , and someone out there will have their curiosity peaked and come calling ... knowing they can be open with someone that is open already ... I fell in love with my wife the moment she hugged me ... I still feel it ... follow your heart and you'll find your way ... sometimes we talk ourselves out of good things out of noisy minds ...

[Milneman]

Ok turns out he's a looser. lol Well....back to square one.

[778 neighbour of some guy]

Posted by Shezbeth (here)
My experience can be summarized thusly:

Being 'ready' to meet the right person is equally about being ready to be the right person for someone else. I found my match both by finding the 'right one for me' and by finding 'the one whom I was right for', in a realistic and conducive sense, as opposed to an idealistic or aspiring sense. My partner had/has as much work to do as I did/do, and this has enabled us to grow together.

Yup, happened to me a couple of weeks ago, very much a mutual therapeutic and healing experience, also scary as hell and way too intense for her, we agreed to quit and move on, things can also happen too fast for one of the two, this time it was her, it was so good, easy and natural it was weirder then weird, ready for each other does not mean its easy to keep up with the pace, so we put the brake on it and enjoy the good things that happened as pleasant memories. What ever happens next happens next, we wont wait for each other, most important lesson for both of us was, good things CAN indeed happen, we both needed to be reminded of that really bad. Off course I feel like sh!t now, but things will pick up, no doubt.

It took a lot of energy out of us btw, sighing, cuddling and the rest, yawning, trust and falling asleep together for no particular reason every two hours in each others arms, we both released a lot of stress and tension, just like that, apparently it was what was needed, and that's pretty cool.

[Kelly Anne]

Posted by cheez_2806 (here)
Is there anything deep down like are you afraid of something? you can never be ready for something unexpected...or can you?

Yea, I've always felt this way...different degrees at different times.

A great OP and awesome degree's of responses....Helping me a lot as I've been wondering about this area of my life lately!

Thanks!

[jounai]

I have had that loneliness experience for many years, most of my life actually. There have been some cases where women have shown interest and I have been dating...but it never felt like something I wanted to do in the end, and I ended it. Self-fulfilling prophecy anyone? :D I still haven't met anyone that I wish to share my life with in the manner partnership involves though I have met some incredible beings while on my astral journeys and visitations of other civilizations. It just doesn't bother me that much anymore, and I find myself just enjoying life as much as I can every day. I bet life will synchronize itself so that the right women comes into my life at the right time, if that is what I really wish for in my heart. Many people tend to ask "why haven't you a girlfriend?!?!" and I typically ask "why should I have?" as an answer. Having a partner is just a part of the fullness of life, so why put all attention on something I do not have when I have so much already? =)

[kirolak]

Personally, no - not ever again. I have wasted so much energy in my life pursuing what I thought was the perfect "personal love" that I will not be going down that path again; I am fulfilled & happy with my family, both 2 and 4- legged. I seriously think that personal "love" is a "practise run" for the impersonal, all encompassing cosmic kind

[Heather2017]

Hi all. Yes, it feels like there's potential for relationships with a new level of authenticity and the opportunity to move beyond the games we used to play and BS we used to believe.

As we clear negative ego, heal emotional wounds and face our fears, we can relate to others from a place of more strength, peace and mutual respect.

For most of us, there are alchemical unions on the road (hopefully) to a kind of spiritual marriage.

Some words from Lisa Renee that resonate for me:

"Many types of people are coming together in a variety of ways to explore different and unusual relationship patterns, many of which are not currently socially acceptable or may be extremely challenging. This is related to spiritual growth and coming into contact with beings you have shared past or future memories with in one’s soul group, or oversoul group.

We come to meet again in the ascension timeline to have completion with unfinished business or resolve painful issues. This helps us to reclaim our pieces for healing, and many times the person in that relationship has shown up for a mutual exchange for learning and spiritual growth. This helps us to reach polarity integration through the process of experiencing relationship alchemy, hence the name alchemical unions.

We have been gradually embodying more of the feminine principle, and this creates shifts in our female energies. When a massive power of female (spiritual source) energy is coming into your body, the inner archetype of your male (mental principle) can feel threatened. Many of us as autonomous independent women on the spiritual path have been working with healing the inner masculine energies. We have had to address and change our behavior in terms of thinking we needed to be polarized in our male energies to survive on planet. We were programmed that we had to always be action oriented, make it happen, make it manifest for our survival.

These are action principles of masculine energy, and now all of a sudden a massive influx of female energy comes into the planet, and it is a fully present and receptive force. It is not a thinking process, it is a feeling process. The masculine part of you may rebel and reject what is happening to you in the ascension process. This is happening within and also is projected into the external in your environment to play out in interpersonal relationships. Have some patience with the process and apply the relationship mastery principles.

The good news about now is that the division and schism between the male and female are undergoing healing and change at the energy architecture level. This will change everything human beings think about as gender and gender roles, and what it means to us to be in relationships, and this process will be stressful for some of us.

This is the shift from the bi-polar geometry which is being rehabilitated back into the trinity format, which allows healing in the architecture of the planetary hologram to occur. This change in the planetary hologram will allow sacred marriage between males and females to occur which are fully in union with the Source Light. This highest expression of sacred marriage is synonymous with the embodied Christos light.

In the future these alchemical unions will evolve into spiritual templates which allow karmic-less unions between men and women. This new template of “krystal” sacred marriage is the perfect union between the masculine and feminine energies.

Through their embodied union of the Rod and Staff, the full interconnection (union) with God Source is made possible in one body. The two become One."

Love,
Heather

[ulli]

Posted by jounai (here)
I have had that loneliness experience for many years, most of my life actually. There have been some cases where women have shown interest and I have been dating...but it never felt like something I wanted to do in the end, and I ended it. Self-fulfilling prophecy anyone? :D I still haven't met anyone that I wish to share my life with in the manner partnership involves though I have met some incredible beings while on my astral journeys and visitations of other civilizations. It just doesn't bother me that much anymore, and I find myself just enjoying life as much as I can every day. I bet life will synchronize itself so that the right women comes into my life at the right time, if that is what I really wish for in my heart. Many people tend to ask "why haven't you a girlfriend?!?!" and I typically ask "why should I have?" as an answer. Having a partner is just a part of the fullness of life, so why put all attention on something I do not have when I have so much already? =)

Having a partner is an exercise in negotiating intimate space.

It is not a fulfillment situation, and the romance part only lasts a few months.
It is a way of getting bombarded with growth opportunities.
Sharing a home, consulting on furniture, decor, food,
always having to find the point where both parties agree...
this is where the real learning takes place.
The bed sharing part is just the most extreme end of such negotiation,
as more delicate methods of expression have to be developed.

Living alone is perhaps a more peaceful existence as there are fewer external challenges.
The greatest challenge is then the encounter with the self,
and all of its various needs and demands.

[Omni]

I would love to meet the right person. But I'm not sure that will ever happen. And if it does I'm not sure I'll be able to follow through due to my situation with the US government. They do things like control my eyes and make me look up at my eyebrows painfully. They told me if i ever had a wedding they would do it during the wedding.... They have already done it so much my better than 20/20 vision has turned into fuzzy at 100 feet away trying to read street signs due to them straining my eyes looking up as much as possible for eyes to look upward.... I'm also very picky(not so much with appearance but with the mind). It's literally one in a million women I would be able to be with due to my situation. Not to mention I have very little money and no car. I haven't given up though.

[Pam]

Posted by jounai (here)
I have had that loneliness experience for many years, most of my life actually. There have been some cases where women have shown interest and I have been dating...but it never felt like something I wanted to do in the end, and I ended it. Self-fulfilling prophecy anyone? :D I still haven't met anyone that I wish to share my life with in the manner partnership involves though I have met some incredible beings while on my astral journeys and visitations of other civilizations. It just doesn't bother me that much anymore, and I find myself just enjoying life as much as I can every day. I bet life will synchronize itself so that the right women comes into my life at the right time, if that is what I really wish for in my heart. Many people tend to ask "why haven't you a girlfriend?!?!" and I typically ask "why should I have?" as an answer. Having a partner is just a part of the fullness of life, so why put all attention on something I do not have when I have so much already? =)

I think this is a point well taken.The reality of romantic partnership often falls short of our expectations that have been jaded by msm and our current culture. It is also very consuming of time and energy. That is why some established spiritual paths discourage it. At least in the US,50% of marriages don't work out. I'm not trying to be a negative Nelly here but it is always worth considering the other side of things. I can honestly say that I feel quite complete on my own,


kirolak-

"I seriously think that personal "love" is a "practise run" for the impersonal, all encompassing cosmic kind."

I think that this is true. There is a lot to learn from personal love experiences if we make the effort.