Do you feel ready now to meet the right one?

[RunningDeer]

Posted by 778 neighbour of some guy (here)

Posted by Amethyst (here)
^My friends tell me that I have to get out more and meet new people - not just women in my dance classes! (btw, I wouldn't mind being hunted )

Funny you say that, a couple of months ago I decided to put myself out there again, and seriously this time, and since I don't seem to meet someone special in the supermarket, at work, when I am out or what ever, I registered on a dating site, a couple of sorta interesting things happened ( depending how you fill out your profile of course), a few dates, some pretty scary ones too ( one lady had no eyesbrows in person, and I sat there staring at that hairless shiny forehead with my mouth open thinking wtf is your deal lady, well that was no success obviously, almost poked my right out three times with the spoon sticking out of my coffee), however tomorrow 13:15 I have a date with someone I have talked to for hours now over the phone and a couple of hundred longer and shorter emails in 5 days or something like that, and tomorrow we are going to meet for the first time and we are both nervous as hell because so far we seem to hit it off pretty good, some bantering and deepsoul diving already took place so we are both somewhat exploding from anticipation to see what will happen tomorrow, prolly not the smartest thing to do, expecting to much that is, but its also quite exciting, so I am about to iron my favorite pair of jeans and shirt, polish my shoes and crap my pants at the same time, would be nice to fall in love again and to both turn into complete idiots who don't care if the world blows up tomorrow or not, we'll see what happens tomorrow, anyway, we are both pleasantly excited to see face to face and hug each other hello for the first time. Fingers crossed.

Best you leave the hat at home.
Funny read, especially eyebrow lady.
Have fun.
<3

[778 neighbour of some guy]

Posted by RunningDeer (here)

Posted by 778 neighbour of some guy (here)

Posted by Amethyst (here)
^My friends tell me that I have to get out more and meet new people - not just women in my dance classes! (btw, I wouldn't mind being hunted )

Funny you say that, a couple of months ago I decided to put myself out there again, and seriously this time, and since I don't seem to meet someone special in the supermarket, at work, when I am out or what ever, I registered on a dating site, a couple of sorta interesting things happened ( depending how you fill out your profile of course), a few dates, some pretty scary ones too ( one lady had no eyesbrows in person, and I sat there staring at that hairless shiny forehead with my mouth open thinking wtf is your deal lady, well that was no success obviously, almost poked my right out three times with the spoon sticking out of my coffee), however tomorrow 13:15 I have a date with someone I have talked to for hours now over the phone and a couple of hundred longer and shorter emails in 5 days or something like that, and tomorrow we are going to meet for the first time and we are both nervous as hell because so far we seem to hit it off pretty good, some bantering and deepsoul diving already took place so we are both somewhat exploding from anticipation to see what will happen tomorrow, prolly not the smartest thing to do, expecting to much that is, but its also quite exciting, so I am about to iron my favorite pair of jeans and shirt, polish my shoes and crap my pants at the same time, would be nice to fall in love again and to both turn into complete idiots who don't care if the world blows up tomorrow or not, we'll see what happens tomorrow, anyway, we are both pleasantly excited to see face to face and hug each other hello for the first time. Fingers crossed.

Best you leave the hat at home.
Funny read, especially eyebrow lady.
Have fun.
<3

Grinn, thanks for the advice, but that is not even my face, I am waaaaaaaay cuter then that quadruple chinned weirdo I chose for my avatar, we'll have fun.

[RunningDeer]

Posted by 778 neighbour of some guy (here)
Grinn, thanks for the advice, but that is not even my face, I am waaaaaaaay cuter then that quadruple chinned weirdo I chose for my avatar, we'll have fun.

I agree. Remember the picture of you with the orbs? And how about the one with your Mom? <3

[Rich]

Posted by Amethyst (here)
I was talking a bit about this to my friend at work today, and said how some people see a natural desire to have a relationship as something wrong and needing to fill a hole...then I said, but holes are meant to be filled...we both went silent then both had girly giggles at what else that could mean! *giggle*

^^Was thinking the same...

I think the only thing that can fill the hole (lack) is self love the rest is a side effect and having a partner or not will be according to the story our mind prefers.
I believe it is simply a choice, if we don't have a partner it means we choose not to for some reason, it might be an unconscious reason.

[778 neighbour of some guy]

I agree. Remember the picture of you with the orbs? And how about the one with your Mom? <3

That woman was 17 when she had me and(remember the suicide thread), I have the world to thank her for ( many times over), we are tight as can be for reasons I mentioned before, you two would like each other, not a single doubt in my mind, probably for the same reasons I like you, your openness in sharing TRUE hard life experiences of the turd kind, rank you way high up the list of people I would actually like to meet, you understand and have seen what's on the bottom of the pit, it has become a very short list.

[Natalia]

Posted by vilcabamba (here)
I like Shirley McClaine's answer on a tv interview. They asked her if she would get married and her response was..only if he gets out of a space ship and he was Plaeidian. I agree! I'm done with 3D relationships.

hehehehe

[3(C)+me]

Posted by Christine (here)
This particular video has done more for my spiritual comprehension of why we seek relationships than probably any other single thing. Now, of course I have several decades of experience.

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=5i_9Zn7z6Hk

Great video, spot on. I don't think I would have understood this in my 20's or 30's now after a many long term relationships under my belt I get it.

[Czarek]

Posted by Amethyst (here)
There is someone out there for everyone - most could meet them...

Don't let anyone destroy your faith in love, or keep it destroyed...because of their own pessimism...(unless you want that for yourself).

We don't have to be perfect, or always happy and secure in every moment, to find love, with the right one

True love, we can be honest with...

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=fPNhnhUphwM

I believe that finding a "perfect" partner after being a member of avalon is like finding a needle in a haystack that's really big, but like most of you I have great vision, keep it mostly to myself and am up for the challenge! It's all about chemistry in the end so get out there and try.
Love that song Amethyst! Thank you! Lyrics make my hair stand up on my back.