The Loss of A Good Friend.

[GoldenWaters]

Today has been rough on me with fighting a cold and migraines, adding to the mess all the garbage that is going on in the world, will there ever be peace? My close friend always kept my mind off the daily world madness and kept me on my feet.
Today that all ends, he was struck by a car and died 20 minutes later, it was painful to see him go, I could do nothing but comfort him till he did pass on. I lay him on an old couch cushion that I gave him to sleep on, he loved it so much. I will now look out there on the porch and see his absence and it will bother me a for a few weeks, but life goes on, I still have my older dog who is less active, I can see him stressed too, he no longer has a friend to play with and he rarely every seems interested in me, just sleeps and barks often...I will try to get closer, I need some healing that my wife can't provide.
One empty bowl to fill now, i will miss his playful games he plays to get extra food from me...anyhow he is gone to Doggy heaven, he can be with his twin who died 2 years earlier by car as well.... I buried him right next to another dog grave who I loved very much... I no longer try to have strong bonds with dogs because being free range and living near the highway they are eventually to be hit by cars, all my animals are free range... My dear friend may you roam the clouds with your brother forever, i will miss you much... I know i may sound sappy, but not really having family they fill the void and it means much to me... R.I.P. Puppy. 6-14-2014.

[ulli]

I am so sorry you went through this. Just a few moments ago I was struck by the memory
of my favorite cat dying in my arms, three years ago, and was surprised that I was still feeling that pain.
I hope you can come to terms with this soon.

Making room for new developments in life sometimes lets in positive experiences as well,
not only negative ones. I wish for you to have those.
We need appy moments to carry on, or we become totally dysfunctional,
and then the opportunity to offer service will be lost forever.

[Pam]

Dear GoldenWaters, I am so very sorry for your loss. My dogs are my dearest friends so I understand how you feel. You do not in anyway sound sappy. I have had dogs in the past that have passed on. It is one thing to loose one to old age, and yet another to loose one unexpectedly and in such a tragic way. My dogs have taught me so much about unconditional love and acceptance. Their willingness to forgive and forget and make everyday a new and happy day has always warmed my heart. I see you live in Malaysia. Do they have a place where you could adopt a new dog that needs a home? That has been the way I have dealt with the loss and loneliness of loosing a dear, dog friend. You may not be ready to do that yet but give it consideration.Again, my heart goes out to you GoldenWaters.

[AriG]

So sad for you. There is nothing that I can say except that I am wishing you healing and comfort. One of my dogs was with me in her previous life. She died and was reborn within minutes on the same day, same year. We found each other again. Knowing that may give you some comfort.....

xoxo

[Sunny-side-up]

GoldenWaters your a dear heart!
so sorry for your loss.
you do not sound sappy at all man, your just a dear, loving being!
Glad to now your in the world.

Love, Peace and big Hugs to you
Alan

[Lifebringer]

You will see them in spirit, when you are there. They will be there to greet you and maybe you'll realize it was someone from your family that passed and just wanted to be a part of happiness in your life. Animals and their psychic spirits are so in tuned with us, they can't be anything other than a blessing. They give love, unconditionally and are our first teachers after they leave their species parental Mom and Dad. They trust us to take care of any baby they bring in the world, when they enter a human's home. Maybe they too are spiritual watchers in animal vehicles? Who knows, but the Creator why they can pick up on our hurts, and unhappiness and come with a loving comforting heart.

Sorry for your feelings of loss to your best friends in fur.

[sian]

I too am sorry for your loss Golden Waters, he will always be with you.
It is true they come here to help us and fill us with unconditional love. May you heal your heart soon.

Much love, Sian

[Stephanie]

So sorry for your loss.
As an old,wise saying goes....

Let time heal the pain,
And love heal the heart.

May your Goldenwaters be filled with Golden light.

[Spiral of Light]

So sorry to hear of your loss, GoldenWaters.

Our furry friends bring us so much companionship, joy and loyalty. Cherishing the happy times you spent with this dear one may help you in your sorrow.

My own best friend (a terrier) is now 14 years old, blind and getting deaf, but he continues to share with me many moments of happiness. He still plays with his toys and cuddles up with me when I need some support. I know he won't be with me much longer and I'll miss him terribly, but I'll always remember his unwavering loyalty and the fun and good times we have shared.

Sending you lots of love ((((((((0))))))))

[LivioRazlo]

I am terribly sorry to hear about the unfortunate loss of your friend. May you find peace and comfort in these trying times.

[OBwan]

Dear GoldenWaters,

My prayers for those who are grieving have led to me become a messenger for sharing a process that has been used with a high rate of success to end grieving.

The attached PDF file is part of a book that I wrote. If this process which I explain assists, I want no accolades. Just making the NLP process available gives me a sense of contribution.

https://projectavalon.net/forum4/atta...8&d=1353853541

[Sidney]

I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear four legged friend. May your grief hold on to all the beautiful memories. Much Hugs for strength and prayers. Sidney

[conk]

Many hugs for you friend. Many of us have felt this pain and it is not easy. It is very hard. Try and focus on your fond memories of the wonderful animal and not on its absence. Blessings, Conk