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    This week my husband of 36 years passed away from liver cancer. My daughters and I are so saddened by this loss.

    Since I became active on Project Camelot and Avalon I feel as if I've grown as a researcher, matured in my spirituality and insight. My husband was slowly coming around after supporting my travels to California to the Awake and Aware conferences, my wacky you tube videos and conspiracy theories. I just hate that he won't be able to be with me to see it through, or at least see the new developments.

    Loss is hard. I think I just want to know I'm going to be ok. I guess it will just take time.

    Thanks, for letting me share my loss with you. Mandala
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    Default Re: You Folks Are My Extended Family and I wanted to Share My Distress

    So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.

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    Default Re: You Folks Are My Extended Family and I wanted to Share My Distress

    Mandala said, "Loss is hard. I think I just want to know I'm going to be ok. I guess it will just take time.

    Thanks, for letting me share my loss with you. Mandala"

    Deepest sympathies to you and your daughters. No doubt your heart is heavy with grief and anxiety about the future without your mate. With the support of your daughters and your support for them I have no doubt you are most definitely going to be "ok". In fact, better than that one day ... Thank you for sharing your loss ... It reminds us of the important things in life as they are not "things" afterall ... what's important are "relationships". And it sounds like you did well to be married 36 years! I think that speaks for itself ... comfort and hugs to you and your loved ones.
    KRKR

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    So sorry for your great loss, Mandala.

    When the tears have dried up,

    When the pain becomes distant,

    When the loss is accepted,

    May you remember the love, and only the love!

    With sincere thoughts of healing,

    Daughter of Time

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    Default Re: You Folks Are My Extended Family and I wanted to Share My Distress

    I feel your husband is with you now in Spirit. He will see you through your endeavor !. May you be at peace. LOVE.

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    Thank you very much.
    With Peace and Love, Mandala
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    So sorry for your loss, Mandala. Sending hugs and peace to you and your daughters.


    One of your Extended Family,
    Paula <3

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    My deepest condolences to you and your daughters, Mandala. At least he is free of pain, now. I think I speak for all of Avalon when I say we're here for you.
    Before enlightenment, chop wood; carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood; carry water. -Zen Proverb

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    My heart is with you and your family in this sad time. I have also lost my wife in 2008. It almost destroyed me, but time heal all wound and it made me a stronger person.
    Always remember that the body is only a vehicle for the eternal soul.

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    I recently found a valuable article showing a CURE for cancer which consisted of Insulin Potentiated Treatment which consists of sending insulin, through injection, to the cancer patient followed by a SMALL amount of METHOTREXATE. The cancer cells hungrily consume the insulin which allows them to consume more sugar to support the cancer cells and in so doing also consume the Methotrexate poison which only kills the cancer cells because it is given in such a small quantity. According to the article, many people with serious cancer were cured. Please pass this along.

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    Sending deepest sympathy and my best wishes for the future,
    from Boja.

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    Mandala, I am so sorry for your loss but you WILL be okay. Time is, and will be, a great healer. Please remember to be gentle and patient with yourself and allow yourself to feel the pain and grief until it gradually begins to fade and is replaced by so many happy memories.

    With blessings and warm love.

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    Sorry for your loss. Wishing you all the strength, wisdom and compassion you may need.

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    Mandala, thanks for sharing your loss with us. deepest blessings and love to you and your daugthers. Battling cancer is long and full of ups and downs. And it will surely takes time to adjust to life without his physical presence.

    We have something unique here within our extended family that is to our aid, and that is the knowing that we are actually immortal beings and that death is an illusion. It makes the seperation easier, I am sure he is with you right now, free and 'traveling light' more than ever, in a while he will be able to continue his journey.. but even then your connection may deepen.. untill your lives will touch once more..

    Much peace and comfort to you ~

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    I feel for you.

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    I am so glad you had 36 years together and I am sorry for the pain you are going through over this tremendous loss.

    Pam

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    My mum of 67 passed away this March .. .. .. on one phenomenological level I still don't understand 'how' it's happened ( though otherwise, I claim to know almost anything ) .
    There are things , I believe, she's got right only once it was too late to be saved ..
    and there are things I will see correctly only once I'm one leg out of here too .

    Wishing you ... peace and completion dear Mandala






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    Nothing more to say at a time like this than, you are loved....xxxx.... N

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    Sincere condolences, Mandala.

    Much strength and positive energy for you and your daughters and the wider family.

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