The Law of Polarity ~ Dualistic Universe
First I reference a highly recommended and powerful short video(approx. 2min) about the Law of Polarity by Sarah Johnson:
Sarah sums this up better than any other source I have seen in such a concise, perfect, and positively impactful way, I can't help but commend her on her potency in the video.
We live in a largely dualistic universe. When I hear new age sources demonize duality, I can't help but think they are being deluded by false and/or misleading information, or at the very least have a very limited perspective of reality when saying one can transcend duality. This may seem backwards to some readers, but all I ask is to hear me out before reaching a conclusion...
The simple fact that we have emotions that are of both polarities; negative and positive, shows me all the talk about transcending duality is nonsense. If you can manage to live life only with positive emotions I'm not sure you are fully human(And I do not mean that in a good way)...
The word duality is not just good and bad to me, but also represents the highly undeniable truth that the universe's very composition includes countless dualistic polarities.
Here are some I could think up:
Positive/Negative
Order/Disorder
Health/Sickness
Darkness/Light
Love/Hate(or alternatively fear, I find fear more potent than hate, but hate more an opposite of love)
Balance/Imbalance
Subjectivity/Objectivity
Equality/Inequality
Freedom/Enslavement
Truth/illusion
Physical/Non-Physical
Heavenly/Hellish
Growth/Stagnation
Synthetic/Natural
Integrity/Corrupt
Left Brained/Right Brained
Left/Right
Up/Down
Student/Teacher(this is a revolving door for the best interactions I think)
As a practice I try to always scrutinize my own conclusions. When scrutinizing the idea of law of polarities I found it hard to come up with an opposite to "neutral" for a little while, however I think I found one, polarized. I can't be sure the law of polarities applies to everything, as I do not have the conscious capability to access all information in existence. Regardless, the law of polarities applies to practically everything, if not everything. Applying the solution to negative things Sarah promotes by understanding there is always an opposite to what one feels I think is potentially very beneficial psychological advice.
Without opposites nothing is defined. Dualistic properties of the universe are essential to existence as we know it. If there was no evil in existence, we would have nothing to contrast the best things in reality to. Without hot, there is no cold. Without up, there is no down, and so on. One could argue darkness is just as important as light, both metaphorically and literally.
The relativity of the poles further defines things in our existence. For example when starving, food tastes a lot better. When in a very dark situation, positive things feel much better. Relativity applies to dark and light feelings, and experiencing them both adds beauty, complexity, and definition to both poles of feelings.
Experiencing only one thing would eventually normalize and making it abundant in many cases would make the experience become redundant or lose it's potency. For example saying "eternal bliss" is superior to a dualistic existence I find flawed. Pretty much any experience loses it's stimulating effect after enough exposure. One develops a tolerance to experiences as per the mechanics of consciousness and if one was only ever in bliss eventually bliss would become "normal", and lose it's desirability. Potent love is one of the only things I've experienced that I think I would have a hard time experiencing it getting old. I still wouldn't want to be in a state of love all the time. The people who say eternal bliss is possible never experienced such things, unless they mean eternal as a descriptive away from it's time based definition.
I'm not sure any being can truly "transcend duality". There is talk of the highest forms of existence not including duality aka good or bad(only good), I personally think that is nonsense not based on reality. As nice as it sounds to experience only good, that requires a good deal of ignorance on this planet, and I am pretty sure the beings living in the "heavens" experience duality as well, just not as extreme as our planet does.
All that being said I do think being positive is a good thing. However ignorance of dark things happening on Earth will get us nowhere... Ignorance, apathy, and inaction plague mankind and are a big part of the problem we have here.
Non duality talk is a big part of the new age 'religion', I plan on writing about the new age religion much more in the future on this blog, so stay tuned for those... I believe the new age beliefs have a foundation built with psy ops(not to say it doesn't have some truths and value).