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That is fine except you have some illusion that they are bad people. The people complaining are still here. Like yourself who are complaining about who I see as fairly decent people. You're the ones protected by mommy and daddy not the other way around. You use the analogy it's their house. No it's the peoples house. The internet is not suppose to be private property unless you are into fascism. We make this entire thing up. The people who liked the forum are also banned too. It has nothing to do with what you said. Some left because they didn't like other people and so on. But most are too quick to be banned. The reason why you never got any penalty even though you are rude is because of being an owners pet.
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1) The voice of truth? 2) Owners pet? 3) Too quick to be banned?
My comments: 1) Not the voice of truth that I hear. I see a lot of opinion there, some I agree with and much that I don't agree with and some downright erroneous. 2) I was not given any list of of "owners pets." ![]() 3) Too quick to be banned some may say, and not quick enough for others. There are many different personality types on the forum. Some love to be argumentative. Some find argumentation to be most unpleasant. The ban rate here has been very, very tiny. As the mod team continues to change members and there is more communication and training, and the work load spread a little thinner, there should be less people feeling unfairly dealt with. Give us a chance. Many times other members make complaints about a person which over time lead to that person being banned if their unpleasant behavior continues to upset other members. _____________ Originally Posted by Dean Plejaren That is fine except you have some illusion that they are bad people. The people complaining are still here. Like yourself who are complaining about who I see as fairly decent people. You're the ones protected by mommy and daddy not the other way around. You use the analogy it's their house. No it's the peoples house. The internet is not suppose to be private property unless you are into fascism. We make this entire thing up. The people who liked the forum are also banned too. It has nothing to do with what you said. Some left because they didn't like other people and so on. But most are too quick to be banned. The reason why you never got any penalty even though you are rude is because of being an owners pet. |
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or it might be because everybody is getting there computer fried this is the third one this week
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If people complain well they can complain. I never let complaints control me neither should anyone else worry about anything anyone complains about or lies about. As long as you stick to the truth lies are just lies and ignorance ignorance. If you cannot defeat lies with truth it only proves you don't have enough truth to defeat it. Censorship is not how you defeat any problem you can trust me on that because it's factual. Remember this is not an argument, do as you wish. I'm just stating how things are. When you delete threads move things around ban people. You do it out of discernment of what is supposedly the best thing. I'm just saying how I see the situation if you think I am wrong that is ok. And ban me if you wish. My opinion remands the same. If I have made any assumptions in particular that are wrong feel free to point them out. I'm not against you saying so. Just as you shouldn't be against me saying what I think. My avatar, that shouldn't be a problem. If anyone is offended contact me for clarification. It has never being a problem. I have only saw one person ask about what it meant. If anyone was upset complaining to me would be more sensible since I am the one with the avatar. Yet I haven't seen anyone complain as yet publically or privately to me. Could you be making excuses? Are you being defensive? I don't see a problem with anyone I just like to say things as I see them. If people create rumors or lies that is their business it doesn't mean I am going to infringe on their ability to express simply because their behavior may not be suitable for myself. Better they are allowed to make mistakes and learn. I'm only saying this as the subject came up normally I would not bring it up only someone asked about this. 5200 people is only a big deal if you have an ineffective approach. Otherwise they are simply free spirits speaking their mind and it's not really that much work when everyone does a little bit to help keep the forum running. Like you being moderator and such. What crushing workload? I would just let them be as they are and let them lead themself......it shouldn't be a crushing workload. Keep in mind I haven't assumed anything about anyone. This is also strange that you say half of it was because of technical issues. I was there and I know what happened was not a technical puzzle it was clearly active moderation with clear distinct choices that were being made at the time. What technical issue could it have being? If you mean there was not a function to more effectively control peoples opinion than I have to say forums are not made for that purpose. To UNITY! To the TRUTH! Last edited by Dean Plejaren; 11-17-2008 at 03:09 AM. |
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Dean, why do you feel that you need to "speak for" / "defend" people here or "there"? DO you think this forum is full of shy people who cannot speak for themselves. Have you considered that many are quite happy just to lurk and get all the good stuff that is here, or just contribute in peace.
What is it that YOU really want? If it is total freedom to engage in any forum behaviour including that which contravene's the forum guideliness then great - I get that, maybe YOU don't agree with all of the guidelines, but it is Avalon with Avalon's guidelines and not Dean's forum with Dean's guidelines. Avalon values positive contribution, factual contribution, healthy debate and opinions, above that it values that all this is done in a respectful and as harmless a manner as possible. The moderators are there to assisst this process. Avalon encourages that decency, and I feel pretty confident that most of the membership encourages/hopes for it to, since that is what makes it strong. Further, I presume that the majority who do operate within the guidelines dont really understand why the few who dont, do what they do. Or if they do, (sometimes it is obvious) they dont speak up because they dont want to further fan the fires - they would preffer to stick with Avalons mission. They dont want endless threads of bonecrushing debate, or to be personally attacked for thier views, or see forum bashing and negativity - all of which is, more often than not, off-topic. In any case those that fail to meet these quite normal standards of human decency should expect to either be encouraged to change or, if necessary stop contributing (by thier choice or Avalon's depending on the situation). You have said elsewhere that you are going to start your own unmoderated forum? Were is it? You can say that here as a reply to this message and I promise that we won't bust you for advertising. Either way, I wish you well in your experiment. A.. |
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@Dean, you wrote:
I'm just stating how things are. If I have made any assumptions in particular that are wrong feel free to point them out. Well my dear dean you assume to know how things are. In my humble opinion those assumptions are wrong. You don't know half of what is going on nor do you see the mods being bashed. It's great to see you defending the truth assuming you know the truth. But have you read the forum guidelines? I doubt it. Internet is free as is the highway. A forum is like a car on that freeway or a house on the side of it. Sitting in that car or entering that house requires that you behave like a guest and the rules are made very clear in the avalon guidelines. If people would come into my house yelling and screaming and insultiing me in my own house I have the right to kick them out faster than they can fly and I would not call that censorship. I do run a forum myself and the rules are very clear. If anyone has a problem with that he/she is free to go whether he/she claims to know or speak the truth or not. If someone dashes in to tell me how to run my own forum he or she has obviously not read the forumguidelines. He or she will get a warning and if his or her attitude doesn't change he or she gets banned and that is my right as a forum owner and it is my duty as well because in the guidelines I promised that the ones sharing the intentions the forum was meant for would be protected from people bumping in trying to rip things apart and breaking the whole thing up and believe me: There are people that have no other intentions than doing just that. Remember it is only your truth you speak and as long as you keep that in mind I will listen to you because I want to learn something from you but untill now I must honestly say that I haven't seen one item posted by you that could hold my attention longer than a few seconds. As far as I am concerned I think you should behave as the guidelines suggest. Behave like a guest and start posting interesting threads in stead of climbing your old Rosinante and attacking the windmills my dear Quichote. Your humble servant Sancho Pansja. And you also wrote: You know my choice it's that the only "laws" I follow is the law of nature. That also means that if you meet a bear you're probably the one that gets eaten Last edited by Peer; 11-17-2008 at 10:15 PM. |
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""You can't stop people arguing forcefully without a regression, that is part of the process of resolving present frictions. Forcefully banning average people is going backwards. You can say they deserve to be banned and it was all correct but I wasn't born yesterday.
I wasn't born yesterday either Dean. ![]() P.S When you own a site that doesn't mean you own the people. Nor does it mean they are in your territory to order them as you please. This is what causes illusions that make you think certain people are above the rule of other people. It's not a pyramid. You strip people of their right to be themself.""" If you have that little autonomy and so little knowledge of who you really are I can understand why you are feeling being ordered around. If your level of autonomy is low I can imagine you feel or think that some people are above the rule of other people. I would like to encourage you to face the truth on what your personal level of selfempowerment really is, not dwell and indulge in the illusion of what you like to think it is. If your autonomy would be high leveled and strong you would not feel stripped of anything as it is impossible for someone else to strip you of anything. You are the one doing it to yourself and that is a choice you are free to uphold and stand for. I respect your free will and the path you choose. We all are an ongoing project. Still evolving.
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Well, there really is not much to talk about on this forum...
You can only go on and on about preparedness for so long. Sooner or later you get your alpha members, and it turns into a strange mindless challenge of people's beleif's. I suggest more topics to talk about. I would like a poetry section or a section where members can express other things, perhaps a debate section, so we can have debates, and learn. Perhaps a section where we can post pictures of odd things we see, news or what not. Making Avalon a more dynamic message board. I try to come on as much as I can, do I agree with every mind I meet here, no, yet instead of posting hey your a moron, I just do not post on their thread. Actually there are some threads here that actually scare me, as far as what people think and beleive, but that does not mean I am not brave enough to try to understand how, or why or for what reason they beleive such a notion. Anyhow its not the quantitiy of the product we produce its the quality... PEACE |
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Somebody said that people move on to other sites what a relief, I thought they all got rapture and became food for the reptilians.
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You had a meeting about how to keep on purpose? Feel free to share the main points with everyone on the forum who are part of it..... It depends how wise you are. If banning people is the answer to offensive attitudes (that one interprets as offensive) it's not dealing with things but making them worse. Mainly because their attitude may not be what is offensive at all so it creates another problem instead of the solution. It may be the other person who is offensive by thinking they are superior and interpreting it as bad. People have the right to decide things. Responsibility for not being censored is everyones problem. The purpose of Avalon is not in the direction of it's defined purpose otherwise a community would be in the works that we could all participate in. There would be planning and a clearly defined progression happening that we can all track. If others express observations or judgments are labeled offensive. This is getting on thin ice in terms of covering up what others say and their own experiences. It prevents positive growth when you censor no matter what the excuse is. So it's not attacking or accusing or an attitude that is a problem. Blaming individuals, is not kool. Not allowing them to speak, is not effective. The issue is sticking to the defined purpose of the forum. Which I see is offtrack at the moment. Maybe re-define it's purpose or stop thinking it is the purpose it advertises. You can't stop people arguing forcefully without a regression, that is part of the process of resolving present frictions. Forcefully banning average people is going backwards. You can say they deserve to be banned and it was all correct but I wasn't born yesterday. P.S When you own a site that doesn't mean you own the people. Nor does it mean they are in your territory to order them as you please. This is what causes illusions that make you think certain people are above the rule of other people. It's not a pyramid. You strip people of their right to be themself. Yes I have already got a ban as a warning for having this 'attitude' which I think is entirely offensive in itself. I know that some people are comfortable thinking things are different without the truth upsetting them and their daily log on experience. For that I am sorry. I'd rather upset them than let others paint a picture that is not the true situation. Last edited by Dean Plejaren; 11-16-2008 at 11:12 PM. |
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I think the people most likely to find themselves invited to leave, are those who could care less whether they upset or offend others.
Any point which can be made, can be made without trampling others feelings. There are lots of very sensitive people here, who have largely put most confrontationally polarized interactions behind them. Many have said that proximity to this careless behaviour is a deal breaker in whether they are able to participate here or not, and unfortunately, we've lost a great many valued members. An example would be where a poster tells another he's gotten something wrong, and then adds a completely unnecessary "as usual". That kind of petulant behaviour can grow legs and walk away, IMO. |
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If you think a handful or two of banned members in a forum with over 5200 people is a big deal, think about this one ... the attrition rate of the moderators is astronomical. The work load is crushing, for some the mountain of abuse and lies about the mod team and owners simply becomes intolerable. Considerable meeting time was spent getting all the new mods on the same page, so some of the past problems can be avoided in the future. If there is a problem on the forum, we all want to come up with the best solutions, none of which of course, will please everyone. I assure everyone of this -- the mods are not the power tripping ogres that a handful think we are. We are just everyday people who have volunteered our time to help out. None of us are perfect and we all have a flaw or two or maybe even three. Very few of the previous batch of mods remain. So its a new day! I'd say 50% of it was about technical issues connected to using vBulletin. Almost every answer about changes we wanted was "no this program cannot do that." And I asked a lot of questions about all the crazy things people are writing and spreading around. No, George Green has not funded Kerry and Bill. It has all been their own money they spent to provide this information to people for free, and a small portion of small donations. They will probably make a section and answer all these types of lies about them themselves. Dean we are here for the truth and you are posting some erroneous assumptions and calling them truth. Here's a fact: Many members are complaining to us about your swastika avatar - as we all have various levels of "truth" knowing. I happened to read the thread about what the true meaning of that symbol is - if I remember correctly, it is unity. I think it would be a great idea if you could put some explanation in your sig file, something clever or witty or with a real stickem point. You do ask some good questions. Keep advocating for the truth, but be careful about those assumptions you make. To UNITY! To the TRUTH! Karen Last edited by Karen; 11-17-2008 at 01:54 AM. |
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And I just saw your new post. We talked about how we can move a thread to the section they belong in, and leave a place marker directing people to the new location. We send the original poster a private message about the move, and we hope a place marker will help. From this point on we hope to limit the deleting of posts and I am advocating this be minimized for the very reasons you express. I assure you we are listening, yet we do have FORUM GUIDELINES - http://www.projectavalon.net/forum/a...ent.php?f=&a=6. Again this is a new team with new input and a new vision. From this day forward give us chance - complain to us of future events, not of the past we've hashed over a zillion times. Please go make a positive contribution to some other thread. Please help guide the forum members to stick with the the purpose. You know - unity. What are we doing right? Anything? To keep on purpose! Karen |
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The out of alignment members? Well that is for everyone to judge. Some people have unusual choices that are different to others. I see them as individuals and my paradigm is completely different to yours. I support co-operating but would not mistake difference of opinion with conflict. Thanks for adding your bit and doing the best you can. It's not that I don't appreciate good intentions I would rather not praise people. Last edited by Dean Plejaren; 11-17-2008 at 03:53 AM. |
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Since you asked, Dean, I believe you have made a couple of assumptions which are incorrect in this thread.
One is that this place is public. It is not. you had to apply and be accepted. It's a private place, belonging to Bill and Kerry. What they wish it to be, is what it will be. Those who find they can't agree with their purpose and mission statement for this forum are welcome to find a more suitable playground. Second is the notion of free speech on this forum. The desire of both owners and the mod team, is that free speech be the reality here. But it's not a right. It's a privilege, which exists within the rules, guidelines, and spirit and purpose under which this forum was created. A member here simply does not have the right to treat other members in a disrespectful, discourteous manner. Your freedom to leave far surpasses your freedom to say whatever you like, regardless of the effect that will create on other more congenial members. I'm not saying I think you should leave or don't belong here. I've seen lots of your posts pushing for getting into action on some sort of plan. Sounds like you're action oriented. What are you doing in that regard? Action oriented people are going to see their person stock rise in the near future, if I'm not mistaken. Action needs a channel. |
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This is not my paradigm or something I will ever agree on. but I will agree it is there right to choose that paradigm for themself. Even if I did not agree the laws of nature dictate them the power to ban me. However it does not empower people this paradigm so I conclude it is immoral. I am here because I am myself, my rights is never a privilege or property of another person. Since I don't agree with this paradigm they can either let me be myself or ban me. I respect people but I am going to think for myself what is best. If others did the same we would not have globalization. This was not an assumption I made it was a conscious decision to know and follow what is the more effective and empowering system of operation in a forum. Quote:
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You have these Dean, so I respect you. But I disagree with your statement that this forums policies are disempowering. The policies exist to protect the many, from the individuals who place what they want personally, above the rights of others to not have that individual "act out" if that's what they feel like doing. Kerry said just today that (paraphrase here) the rules are not to take precedence over the individual pursuit of truth. And that she didn't want the Mods here to be like traffic cops. The mods don't want to be reduced to that kind of activities either. The line to keep from crossing, is the one where the many are made to hear the complaints of the one or the few. It just turns the place thick with unpleasant vibrations, if that's the terminology you'd care to use. The only rights of yours anyone here is interested in infringing, is your perceived right to say whatever you want, no matter what that does to others. You are responsible for the effects you create on others. The mods will protect the members here from self serving activities which fall outside the rules, and cause others distress. They won't have much choice. 'nough said. |
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How do you protect people? By putting the power in the hands of a few people? I am not trying to argue this is just open discussion about things. It's my view that the foundation of something will determine how strong it will be. All that Avalon is for I am supporting, but this is just how I think. I'm not demanding anything just being transparent about how I think. |
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Hi Dean. I hardly think anyone is ever going to stop you from having or expressing your opinion.
![]() Mods respond to the complaints of other members toward a particular member whom they think are taking advantage of, or just plain don't follow the guidelines. In fact, over 90 percent of mods taking any action is complaint driven by the members themselves. I hope this clarifies some of the confusion that may have popped up from time to time. As for missing threads, I repeatedly stated that anyone sending me the name of a thread that is being reviewed that they wish to see sooner, as compared to later. just needs to PM me and I will personally handle it ASAP.
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Nice of you to offer getting any missing threads back if they need any but very confusing. I'll save the hassle of questioning it like an investigation, it's not cleared up but I don't want to harass. Nothing the mods said have given me any reason to think it's not exactly how I said from the beginning of this thread. The conclusion is I never agree or can understand the clean up incident but are moving on now without dwelling on it. |
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One more thing. I think it is a realistic danger that opinions will be suppressed under any structure of centralized power that considers people and things as privately owned.
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A few things are clear that you can't cover up and that is what I already stated above.
Jenny, it's not me that is in the delusion it's clear that moderation is power that is used in discernment it's not some illusion that people can be ordered around by the moderators influence. Are the Moderators a reflection of 5000 or so members? No they are the reflection of the owners who accepted them. The structure of it is clear so you can't pretend centralization isn't capable of a function of control. That is just laws of nature not me in a delusion. If I felt ordered around or powerless without knowing why would I disagree and say what is the truth. I am not doing anything to myself other than saying what is. That is not stripping me of anything it's making myself clear in relation to what is mistaken. Quote:
Whatever the intention is, centralization restricts people to the minds of a few and what they allow. When you get to the amount of people coming to this forum it really begins to effect peoples ability to communicate believe it or not that is how it works. What I know is true is what I know. I can't conform and pretend something is not happening when it is. The way you handle these problems that you moderators constantly try to solve is you eliminate rules and allow diversity rather than conforming to specific policies that only foster what you are trying to eliminate. Which is a lack of leadership in people and a lack of allowing them to take responsibility. That is the core of all the problems no matter what you want to decide. And would it go into chaos? Maybe at first it would seem to collapse because you have already structured it that way. In this society people do not think for themself for so long that they are now dependent and not capable of making proper decisions. They are not critical thinking because what has being taken away? The freedom to take responsibility for themself and others without some mediator enforcing conduct. This enforcement is the cause of the problems not the solution. how do I know that because its simple. Written rules are restrictions that do not justify or solve the problems that they would claim to be solving. The nature of reality dictates any rules are nothing more than extra obstructions. The only thing that can work is unity and co-operation for the empowerment of the individual not centralization of decisions. Since I don't agree with the entire structure of it maybe you should ban me. I'm not sure what you should do if I was in that position I would listen to me and follow what works. All I know is what I said is right. Anything else is not my problem. Last edited by Dean Plejaren; 11-17-2008 at 02:12 PM. |
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