Our conversation was all about
mental attitude towards (a) achievement and (b) living the best life. They have a LOT of personal experience in this, as they've both consciously deviated WAY beyond the standard expectations of society. And they love it.
Neither has ever spent a day in school, yet they both speak 4 languages and are highly intelligent, competent, responsible, and mature beyond their years. If Carl Jung were to argue that Pema should just be like every other little girl (because that's her
'current stage in life', as it were), then she'd simply be mediocre in every way. Just like almost every other little girl.
But she's
chosen not to be mediocre. That refusal to be conventional has brought out the very best in her in the most extraordinary ways.
So the message here, I'd suggest, is that
human society throughout history has always had champions in every field — not just sport! — who have each dared to depart from society's norms to become exceptional.
That list of people has been recorded and celebrated in history's texts for thousands of years. Myths are frequently built on the achievements of real men and woman who have all bucked the system and refused to be like everyone else around them.
We
need people to depart from the norm and be beacons visible to others that may be inspiring. In my own case (which is insignificant, and barely visible to anyone!

) the message I might possibly convey, at least to some, is that one absolutely doesn't have to "be one's age" mentally, emotionally or physically.