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Hi Songs, very well written post, and there is much truth in the content that we would all ignore at our own peril. If I might though, let me just add my own little simple man's sprinkling of flavor to your thoughts, and see what you think.Posted by songsfortheotherkind (here)
The Pub was established as a haven from dogma. Those who insist on bringing dogma, despite being politely asked not to, reveal themselves to be agents of a different kind. There's only so long that the grooming can go on- eventually, the itch will need to be scratched- the thing that abusers don't quite get is that they are their own fleas, so they go questing for those to consume because they know they'll usually find them.
Sometimes, though, they wander into the wrong pub. They confuse a willingness to build bridges with a willingness to tolerate abuse. They confuse openness with gullibility. They confuse an obviously motley looking crew with a stupid motley looking crew. Even Hannibal eventually is undone by his own hunger. All abusers are because they serve their purpose and become redundant.
Two things really. 1) I'm convinced that there is some kind of energetic engaging these days, call it what you will, that has a lot of us feeling like we are living in a pressure cooker. I touched on it briefly in a previous post.
2) People under pressure, especially constant pressure, may from time to time find themselves acting in ways that, upon further reflection, were well below the normally high standards they set for themselves. This happened with yours truly on a different forum a few days ago, and was quite the humbling experience to see just how quickly we can fall. Formal apologies came in short order. What else can you do?
Which actually leads me to a 3rd point. I often get this little vision that we're all on The Long Walk together. The closer we get to our destination, the more exhausted we are, and the more difficult the terrain. We're a team, and that's the only way to make it all the way. Even the strongest amongst us stumbles and falls occassionally, and needs a helping hand back up. Maybe even from the one whose toes they had just stepped on.
Anyway, I just thought this should be considered as well, in light of recent events. Maybe someone is manipulating, or maybe someone is just having them a bit of a stumble.
fiery little dragon woman...
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Well, one can't swim through liquid emerald every day. Some days are for taking to the skies and engaging fire.
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