Posted by enfoldedblue
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Manifesting is an interesting one. Here is something from my website that I wrote for a workshop a while ago:

Our outer reality is a perfect reflection of our inner world. What we put out comes back to us. But it is not JUST what we CONSCIOUSLY think that determines the state of our outer world. Some people try to follow ‘The Secret” and end up working to push away negative thoughts and focus only on positive thoughts, believing this will allow them to manifest their dreams. However what we actually send out is not just our thoughts, it is essentially an energetic signature that captures all aspects of our being. Both our conscious thoughts AND unconscious thoughts are reflected back to us in our outer world. When we become aware of this we can start to see negative experiences in our outer reality, not as punishment or a sign of failure, but rather as reminders of areas inner healing that is needed.
A lot of fearful thoughts come from parts of us that we don’t want to look at. Parts that somewhere along the way we came to believe were undesirable and thus we unconsciously pushed deep down. These parts, feeling rejected and unworthy, actually have a lot of power in our lives, and are the source of much pain and fear. When we are ready to open ourselves and reconnect with these parts we begin to heal and change our energy signature. As more and more of our aspects are healed with love, the more our energetic signature becomes love and the more our outer world reflects the love within. The key to this process is willingness to be open, honest and accepting (all attributes of love)in a process of deep self reflection. When we can accept both the beautiful, gentle and kind aspects, AND those we have labelled as undesirable we are well on our way towards healing our inner fractions and returning to a state of LOVE.
For me it feels like the universe responds to our whole energy signature, and this is ultimately what we see reflected in our reality. So while it is possible to have isolated manifesting successes, unless we do our deep work we will also manifest unwanted situations into our reality.
Another key that I have found in manifesting is unattachment. I play a game with parking. I set my intent to get a park right where I need to go. When I started this game I didn't realize it but I was attached to the outcome. If I got the spot I felt like I was in the flow and doing things right...but then of course when I didn't get the spot I felt like I had failed, and had slipped from the flow. When I realized this and consciously unattached myself from the outcome my success rate when right up.
I also believe that my higher-self knows what I need...more than my 3d self. I don't want to try to control my reality too much...I have a nice relationship with me on the otherside and trust 'I' will provide and create for my highest good.
I will also share my newest little manifestation treasure. I like to leave room for the universe to surprise me. The other day I bought a painting at a second hand shop for $20. When I looked up the name 'Coutaud' signed at the bottom, I discovered it was painted by French surrealist Lucien Coutaud. He illustrated Rimbaud's season in Hell and met Picasso and Matisse. How fun and exciting!
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