To be a woman

[Natalia]

There are the positive and negative aspects of being a woman (despite the appearance)...the whole mix of which depending on the woman...

Sometimes I can't help how I feel...sometimes I don't even have a thought and I feel first...I'm very feeling and that's just my nature...

and I blame myself way too much for things...(even if not consciously knowing it at the time...but on reflection it is clear...)...

Need to take loving responsibility for self when it's needed, and not cruelly blame self for what isn't my fault - that is not always easy! But good to be aware of...and grow/reduce...

being a very sensitive woman who loves connection, sometimes going into the shell breaks connection, and sometimes being too open can be hurtful...as well as lovely...

balance doesn't stay balanced for long, forever coming off balance...

But it does help to have self acceptance as mostly feminine woman, with the positives and negatives (also it's loving to have that about men, too)...because we can't be better than we are...

[Natalia]

Posted by Pris (here)

Posted by Amethyst (here)

Posted by Pris (here)
Don't 'should' on me and I won't 'should' on you.

Alright, cheeky! hehe

btw, I noticed that if you add C to your name and rearranged it, you get crisp! (it can be a raw food one if you want...)...

Lol! I just can't help myself. When the subject of 'being a woman' comes up, I can't help but take it lightly.

In my own head, I'm not 'a woman' per se. The vehicle is a woman and it seems to come along with some interesting emotions (and body parts lol), but generally, from my point-of-view, I'd say I'm rather gender neutral. I've been classified (lol) as a gamine and a tomboy. Coming more from the perspective of a kid (in an adult body) who doesn't care if they're a boy or a girl, I just want to have fun.

I like that about you!

I am like a mix of love to have fun, and serious...depth and lightness...and I do care a lot (sometimes too much)...

[Natalia]

It's nice when people (and self) understand that sometimes we do need the opposite sex to help us in some way...and to believe that we are worthy of that help and love...and sometimes we can help each other and work as a team...(in a relationship I want to be part of a team...)...

[Sidney]

Amethyst, you might be an empath, where you feel not just your emotions, but everyone elses too. I am empthc, and i feel that i am more sensitive than the norm. I tend to take thngs very personally, when most would just shrug things off. Have you considered that possibility?

[Natalia]

Posted by Sidney (here)
Amethyst, you might be an empath, where you feel not just your emotions, but everyone elses too. I am empthc, and i feel that i am more sensitive than the norm. I tend to take thngs very personally, when most would just shrug things off. Have you considered that possibility?

Hi Sidney, yes I am an empath, plus on top of my own wounds and loves sometimes that is a bit difficult to handle...

I internalize things a lot...

[Pris]

Posted by Amethyst (here)

I am like a mix of love to have fun, and serious...depth and lightness...and I do care a lot (sometimes too much)...

Yes... I feel that from you. And, you are very sensitive. Please don't let me put you off... I can be a brat at times, but I don't mean harm.

Like you, I feel great empathy towards others. Ironically, I admit I also have some sociopathic tendencies... a strange mix, I know.

[giovonni]

I admit I also have some sociopathic tendencies

don't we all ...

[Pris]

Posted by giovonni (here)

Posted by Pris (here)
I admit I also have some sociopathic tendencies

don't we all ...

Hahaha!