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    Aghhhh I only scored a 4 - told you my kitteh was smarter!

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    Which one of you incompetent bastards stole my mirror dammit???

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    Quote Posted by 778 neighbour of some guy (here)
    Which one of you incompetent bastards stole my mirror dammit???
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    Which one of you incompetent bastards stole my mirror dammit???
    <3

    Thanks, lol, youre the best Paula, love you too.

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    Thanks, lol, youre the best Paula, love you too.

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    Quote Posted by Amethyst (here)
    I want to make a few things very clear (before I take a needed break from this forum)

    I've only just noticed that this could be a possible referral (?) to something that I said earlier in this thread, which had nothing to do with you chocolate, as far as I was aware

    Quote Posted by chocolate (here)
    BTW, I have very few photos of myself ( somewhere around the number 5 will be correct ). And at the same time I don't put anybody down, if I can help it, neither openly nor in a passive way.
    But, many have, and still are, miss-placing me based on their own labeling system.
    If you was suggesting that I was labeling you because you have around 5 photos of yourself on your facebook wall (which I didn't even know before you said it, and I haven't seen your facebook wall), I was using 5 as an example because that popped into my mind (and there is someone like this on my "friend's" list who several times goes on about others having loads of photos on their wall, with this really judgmental bitter energy about him). It doesn't mean that I think that everyone who has only a few photos of themselves judges others for having more - it was an example, and people have more than me and I do not judge them for it.

    (just in referring to this subject in general) I also do not have 200 photos of myself on my face book wall! Again, I was using that as an example, I probably have around 100, and more than half of those were when I was with my sister, other family, and friends...around half of them were taken and posted by others, and there are only a few selfies...all of this in 8 years being on facebook...it's called socializing, and fun...the rest of my 200 + photos are not of anybody but images and sayings and stuff that I put on my wall, that goes into your photos section and adds to the total count.

    It doesn't matter to me however many photos someone puts on facebook, but I do prefer 1 pic so I can see what the person looks like!

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    Maybe look inside as to why you feel this way, chocolate.

    As Amethyst said recently, 'Mirror mirror...'
    You might not know this...but I never wrote "Mirror mirror" (which might seem a little provocative?)...that was all copied and pasted from the tests results page, which looked different to yours as I didn't save the picture and post it as one...just copied and pasted and I thought it was strange, why did it say Mirror mirror in it, but I posted the whole thing...

    Quote Posted by Tesla_WTC_Solution (here)
    Guess we have to love ourselves (oh my!) to love others after all... didn't a therapist once say that to a few of us here? XD
    It helps!

    When losing that feeling connection to self love (which is what some people want you to do...)...and connecting to it again
    I agree. I don't see what the big deal is with selfies.

    Sorry about saying 'Mirror mirror...' was your quote, Amethyst. Sometimes I miss stuff. But, I do like the saying.

    I don't see it meaning 'Who's the greatest one of all?' I see it meaning when we judge others, it is a reflection of ourselves and our lack of self-love.

    It was meant as a positive, self-introspection.
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    This is the song that expresses best what I mean about that mirror.

    It just happens to be Michael Jackson's song.


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    Thanks for starting this lively and fun discussion, Pris. I admit it, I have been lurking. I took the test, too. I scored so low that I hesitate to say what I scored. Because my inner search is for balance. I figure, everyone has every possible trait inside somewhere. And knowing what surfaces the most is such good information. Well, if one listens. Being at either end of the spectrum is probably equally unbalanced. Of course, if I wanted, I could go back and take it again and put myself in the middle (lol).

    The way I see it, there are lots of narcissists in the world. Actually, as I was studying psychology years ago, it occurred to me that there are very few balanced people. But this only comes to their attention when some part of oneself causes a problem in life...their own or someone close. I mean, a narcissist can have a full and happy life, never becoming aware of any of these tendencies, if the partner is just as happy and the employer is happy and the children are happy...on and on. As a matter of fact, until there is a label (or a diagnosis) placed on a person, which would usually be the result of seeking help for said problem, there would only be whisperings or wonderings or suspicions. But boy oh boy, once the label (or diagnosis) is placed, then a person can look and see all kinds of things that were not obvious before. Sheesh.

    Of course, in the case of narcissism, the person receiving the label would likely not agree. (Just ask my ex-husband, lol, he would agree that he disagrees.)

    Amethyst, I feel for you. I really do. Getting sent someone else's crap is not fun. That is one reason I stay away from most threads. I think it is awesome that you know yourself so well, and I hope a (really brief) break helps you to shake all that off.

    Life is a road we don't travel alone. But everyone's on their own journey home.

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    Test ,what test ? I dont need to do any f#$%^&g test to figure out that your the ones that have the problem not me . last time I looked in the mirror anyway. Yeah I looked ,whats its to ya ? and I liked what I saw okay so dont lecture me with your navel gazing new age fluffy wuffy mumbo jumbo !

    Ive done nothing to be ashamed of . In fact I like the way I am and so does everybody else , that counts anyway . You loosers can do tests if you want to but that dont prove nothin' .Im in this to do business . Know what im saying ?

    I was talking to the CEO of dyna corp yesterday on the golf course ,that's the Royal Melbourne for those of you peasants that even know what golf is .

    So he says to me 'Kevin , there's doers and movers and whiners and looser's . He tells is like it is and i'm to busy doin' it to it to waste any more of my valuable time talking to you guys . Now excuse me while I check myself out in the wing mirror of my Porsche Carrera soft top because i'm about to make some serious moves on the vice chairs daughter . Im to busy goin places to talk to your faces .


    Oh my god , so sorry about that .I was about to give my two cents when Kevin walked in to my body . I hope he was'nt to obnoxious to you guys.....
    I scored 2 I think or was it ten . Does it matter ?

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    Test ,what test ? I dont need to do any f#$%^&g test to figure out that your the ones that have the problem not me . last time I looked in the mirror anyway. Yeah I looked ,whats its to ya ? and I liked what I saw okay so dont lecture me with your navel gazing new age fluffy wuffy mumbo jumbo !

    Ive done nothing to be ashamed of . In fact I like the way I am and so does everybody else , that counts anyway . You loosers can do tests if you want to but that dont prove nothin' .Im in this to do business . Know what im saying ?

    I was talking to the CEO of dyna corp yesterday on the golf course ,that's the Royal Melbourne for those of you peasants that even know what golf is .

    So he says to me 'Kevin , there's doers and movers and whiners and looser's . He tells is like it is and i'm to busy doin' it to it to waste any more of my valuable time talking to you guys . Now excuse me while I check myself out in the wing mirror of my Porsche Carrera soft top because i'm about to make some serious moves on the vice chairs daughter . Im to busy goin places to talk to your faces .


    Oh my god , so sorry about that .I was about to give my two cents when Kevin walked in to my body . I hope he was'nt to obnoxious to you guys.....
    I scored 2 I think or was it ten . Does it matter ?
    No, seriously. Take the test. It's enlightening to know where you score. First off, it helps you with regard to some possible introspection if you're into that sort of thing. Secondly, the rest of us get a better idea of what type of person we're dealing with.

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    Yeah the narcissist next door has finally moved away, far away!!!!!!!!

    Edit: I got 12 by the way.
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